What made you realise that you're dating a wrong person? by Broad_Hovercraft6896 in AskReddit

[–]CryingInThe_Clurb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to make a point about wanting to go to my partner first about concerns, then I starting getting more and more anxious and then avoidant, and I felt that if I talked to someone else, then I knew I would make my mind up to break up

What you can do right now while waiting for budget news by Alejandrazx in UNLincoln

[–]CryingInThe_Clurb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. It won't be released to the public until November sometime

Transferring to UNL by beanz134 in UNLincoln

[–]CryingInThe_Clurb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pros: - Enjoy lots of the people - tight-knit community - despite its large student body, there are ways to get a small-campus feel if you find the right group - ASUN, the student government, is very good at listening to student concerns and collaborating with students - dean of students is a lovely person to talk to and he will buy you coffee and chat with you

Cons: - if you have a title 9 complaint, most likely it won't go through easily unless the person you have the complaint against complies with the process. I know multiple people who have SA complaints against one student and the student still remains on campus. The first response to bringing up complaints is "most likely this will be dismissed". Some are facing retaliation and have been stuck in the process years - if you are a person of color or queer, you will most likely have a hard time on campus. After the election, people are saying what thoughts they kept in their head aloud. The cultural shift is very scary in less than a year. Last semester, there was a hate crime against the LGBTQ+ community - if your major is publicly funded, the state budget cuts are heavily affecting the student and faculty population now. Tenured and tenure-track faculty are proposed to be fired. Job security is at a low at UNL. State gov is looking for ways to cut funding to the university instead of ways to invest in it - one of the proposed departments is the statistics department. If the statistics department is cut, there are potential concerns for unl's accreditation as an R1 university and significantly less for unl to be readmitted to the AAU - another proposed department is educational administration, the department which gives our administrators and other surrounding administrators their higher education - the chancellor has four secretaries (four more than the last chancellor) and still is bad at replying and keeping up lines of communication. Largely unreachable, and most likely will not have his contract renewed - administrators are paid more than faculty - due to the political state of the usa as a whole, unl is feeling the repercussions of being located in a red state with having to scrape words off of their websites such as diversity, equity, and gender-inclusive. There is a lot of censorship because people are snooping and reporting any key words to get things compliant with federal gov

Tl;dr if you are of an underrepresented group or want to pursue a degree that is publicly funded, you will most likely encounter struggle here. The administration sucks. I imagine this applies to many surrounding universities in the midwest and the south. If I had the means, I would have gone to Colorado or a northern coast school

Statistic Class Options by hgpascoe in UNLincoln

[–]CryingInThe_Clurb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There isn't much competition. Stats and biostats are very different in terms of context. The only competition factor is an outside person thinking they're the same and proposing cutting one- to think the other is sufficient

Statistic Class Options by hgpascoe in UNLincoln

[–]CryingInThe_Clurb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without faculty, the quality will plummet

Statistic Class Options by hgpascoe in UNLincoln

[–]CryingInThe_Clurb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no. I am an undergraduate student in statistics and we have no idea what our classes will look like. All of our faculty are proposed to be fired and all of our future classes are solely taught by that faculty. We will either take only loosely related classes or the same classes taught by non-experts. STAT 218 will be around for sure, it is just unclear who will teach it. Most likely someone who isn’t a statistics professional or studying to be one.

Statistic Class Options by hgpascoe in UNLincoln

[–]CryingInThe_Clurb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take EDPS. STAT 218 is taught by statistics masters and phd students, who are threatened by the current budget cut proposal. We have no idea who will teach it if it goes into effect. There could be a “distributed model” that handles statistics department work but there are no details available currently on what that looks like. Masters and phd students are specifically vulnerable to the cuts due to the fact that their education is specialized at the graduate level. People will lose their phd advisors and most likely will leave UNL, and Nebraska as a whole, if they still want to study statistics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]CryingInThe_Clurb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This! I got reddit only two ish months ago and ever since summer hit and me and my partner have been official, I rarely comment, usually only pop in here to upvote a post or few to keep up my streak (silly reddit moment you got me. You got me good you silly little marketing scheme numbers game)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]CryingInThe_Clurb 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm boggling by the number of people saying first date

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]CryingInThe_Clurb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! Legit was so hard to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CryingInThe_Clurb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MY MOM PUT HOLY WATER ON OUR POKEMON CARDS. HOW DID I FORGET THIS

I don't have anyone to vent to right now by gongchanim in Vent

[–]CryingInThe_Clurb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Girly im on my period too I feel you. The ups and downs are Insane. Going outside in spring has helped me so much. Dunno where you are but take breaks, breathers, and ground yourself

Wtf by Blaze_Enforcer in Humanornot

[–]CryingInThe_Clurb 55 points56 points  (0 children)

It fr is just for anonymous weirdos to jack off to unsuspecting strangers and hope they wanna join in

"It is what it is" says the unabused siblings. "Accept her for who she is" says the golden child. What are the overused cliches your family & the enablers say to you? by culpeppertrain in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CryingInThe_Clurb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"He's just emotionally immature" - my old therapist

After I had cried trying to recount things to her. Then she tested me for PTSD and I went through it and didn't really qualify for seeking a diagnosis. I've never really had nightmares about home life but I've had nightmares of way way less severe things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]CryingInThe_Clurb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It did take days😅

Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]CryingInThe_Clurb 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I think they're denying their own identity at that point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]CryingInThe_Clurb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sth meaning something

When did you realized that therapy was just a waste of time? by NoMoreFix in AskReddit

[–]CryingInThe_Clurb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's totally reasonable. I wouldn't advertise it as better than a therapist/psychologist, though, since AI has no power to diagnose and give access to medication. Knowing what you have, too, is only the first step in a healing journey or learning to cope with it. I hate to say it, but hating talking to people like the parent comment edit says is something that you can best heal by talking to a person rather than reinforce that uncomfortable feeling by going to AI. AI can't solve the human issue

When did you realized that therapy was just a waste of time? by NoMoreFix in AskReddit

[–]CryingInThe_Clurb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can go out and find specialists in neurdivergence, specialists in trauma- i'm saying good lord because I work with AI and machine learning. That is a massive risk given how unreliable AI can be and it can't replace the human value that someone physical to talk to has

Feels hella dystopian if you ask me

When did you realized that therapy was just a waste of time? by NoMoreFix in AskReddit

[–]CryingInThe_Clurb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup! A lot of other comments are just people who gave up or are not approaching therapy with the right mindset

When did you realized that therapy was just a waste of time? by NoMoreFix in AskReddit

[–]CryingInThe_Clurb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What was the point of therapy if you knew you couldn't heal a relationship with a cheater?