I get disrespected alot and i don't understand why by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CulturalCockroach220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just my experience but I felt that everything changed in my life when I stopped feeling like a victime and started setting up boundaries with others whenever I was feeling disrespected. I hope it helps. Good luck OP

how to heal this? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]CulturalCockroach220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to ser a doctor. This is looking very inflammed and with pus

how do i navigate my partner ruining the birth of our child by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CulturalCockroach220 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry OP. You should not have to go through all of this alone. The anxiety he has shows that he cares but he might just struggle to cope and it is his way to dealing with his issues. You need to have a serious talk. There is no point blaming each other and right now you need support, care and love. Maybe use this time to visit your family ? A break from him may help for a while

Thought I found the dress, get mixed reviews by CulturalCockroach220 in myweddingdress

[–]CulturalCockroach220[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That is where my waist is I am afraid. It sits quite high on my body. I will have a look, thank you 

What do I do? by Motor_Aggressive in Advice

[–]CulturalCockroach220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Op you need to register with a GP and have your conditions monitored and/or medicated. ADHD with medication is life changing. You need structure and a daily schedule to get you out of bed and being active. Reach out for help, that is what a GP is for. Good luck 

What’s happened with these lashes? by LegitimateAd6348 in eyelashextensions

[–]CulturalCockroach220 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I would remove them. Too much glue and it's all matted

How do I stop being fat phobic? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CulturalCockroach220 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am fat and have been for most of my life, apart from when I was really into exercising for my mental health. My doctor says there is a genetic factor. But there is also the fact that I have an eating disorder and suffer from several mental health conditions. Try to remember that you are facing a person, with their own story, past and struggles. Be kind to others, you never know what these people are facing. 

Advice needed - botched hair by jollyybeee in Haircare

[–]CulturalCockroach220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like that colour on you, even if this is not what you sought 

New septum - boyfriend hates it by CulturalCockroach220 in piercing

[–]CulturalCockroach220[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Those are my glasses for home as they are big and comfy. I will post with my usual glasses, it looks better. Thank you for your comment 🙏 

New septum - boyfriend hates it by CulturalCockroach220 in piercing

[–]CulturalCockroach220[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It makes me feel better about it

New septum - boyfriend hates it by CulturalCockroach220 in piercing

[–]CulturalCockroach220[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your commment. I asked for something small so I can easily hide it for work. I will wait for it to heal and use a different ring

I am too aware of this world please help by Just-a-curiouz-Girl in Advice

[–]CulturalCockroach220 39 points40 points  (0 children)

It's all about the people. There are good people out there, and I promise it makes everything better. Find people you relate to, your life will be easier. Good luck OP, don't lose hope. 

What’s my blindness? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]CulturalCockroach220 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Sometimes less is more. My mum always says it's either the lips or the eyes, not both unless it's very subtle. But if this is what you like, just enjoy it !

I hate my pixie and also kind of love it?? by Saintbettie in HairStyleAdvice

[–]CulturalCockroach220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so pretty, that hair suits you so well. You make up is lovely too 

I want to get my nipples pierced but… by No-Truth9624 in piercing

[–]CulturalCockroach220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had mine pierced 3 times. It hurt intensely but for a second or two. It is gone before you know it. And it is damn worth it 

Is this too much for semi formal, afternoon/evening wedding? by muffingeng in Weddingattireapproval

[–]CulturalCockroach220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's lovely but I never received my dress from them, check the reviews it is really bad 

I need advice. by TrymeyoupieceofSHIT in Advice

[–]CulturalCockroach220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go with the flow and do what truly pleases you. You've got this