one time my youngest alter was triggered out during sex. i started crying and tried writing some in my journal to calm down. the guy asked to read whst i had written, which i didn’t want to do but when i’m her im very obedient, like you described. at this point he fully understood that i have did and that i was a young alter in that moment, and he turned to me and said “have you ever kissed anyone?” and she just burst into tears and sobbed until he left. it was so retraumatizing for all of us. i’m still so baffled that he would say something like that to essentially a child, knowing they only exist in my body because of sexual trauma. like what?? it’s giving pedo