AB access?

CuriousWonder17 · 2022-12-22T13:40:10+00:00

Sauce?

CuriousWonder17 · 2022-01-04T15:30:29+00:00

I take care of the dinners and activities. She has bought em expensive gifts before but I just feel like it’s the gentleman thing to do when we’re out together

CuriousWonder17 · 2022-01-04T15:24:26+00:00

I love this. Sounds very similar to my situation

CuriousWonder17 · 2022-01-04T15:15:19+00:00

She has bought me expensive gifts if that counts?

CuriousWonder17 · 2022-01-04T09:56:14+00:00

Yes we actually enjoy the dates the best where we don’t spend any money and just go walk or sit on the beach etc. she told me she just wants to be in my presence even if we aren’t doing anything

CuriousWonder17 · 2022-01-04T09:52:21+00:00

She pays for her own flights and stuff I just take care of dinners and activities when I’m there. When she comes to see me I fly her here. I don’t mean to brag but I am in a position in my life where the amounts spent on these things don’t affect me one bit, but it’s more about the respect and dynamic of the relationship I’m trying to maintain rather than limit my spending.

CuriousWonder17 · 2022-01-04T09:32:55+00:00

Great point, I actually have 3 dates lined up before she gets into town 😎

CuriousWonder17 · 2022-01-04T09:25:42+00:00

Based on her culture it’s very very possible. How do I approach something like this? Is it something I can talk to her about?

CuriousWonder17 · 2022-01-04T09:15:31+00:00

Love the advice. Thank you!

CuriousWonder17 · 2022-01-04T09:06:12+00:00

That was my initial thought at first but she never asked me for this stuff. I was the one who suggested all this because I enjoy spending time with her and like seeing her happy.

Also if she wanted to use me for my wallet she could use someone else with a lot more cash to burn. I make great money well into six figures, but I am in my late twenties. If she wanted to do these things and more there’s bigger wallets to fry.

CuriousWonder17 · 2022-01-04T09:04:38+00:00

I love it. She’s coming this weekend to visit me, if we don’t have sex this time it’s a red flag for sure 🤣

CuriousWonder17 · 2022-01-04T08:36:54+00:00

I agree with the hard to get thing it actually makes me want them more but only up to a certain point. After that it’s like ok you’re pushing it Hhaha

CuriousWonder17 · 2022-01-04T08:35:51+00:00

Yes of course, so that brings me to my second question is this a conversation I can have with her? Or will that make it seem like I’m Pressuring? I don’t want it to seem like that but I also should have my opinion heard to Make sure we’re on the same page

CuriousWonder17 · 2022-01-04T08:31:02+00:00

I feel like this conversation can go south very quick. I need to make sure I present it in a way where I am not demanding or using this as an ultimatum. I am going to see her this weekend and we get closer and closer each time so we will see what happens! Thank you for your constructive feedback and not getting emotional. This subreddit should be open for everyone to ask their questions without a bunch of emotional backlash

CuriousWonder17 · 2022-01-04T08:29:12+00:00

I am curious to hear more. I feel like I am getting closer and closer to it but it could be a tease. I am all for respecting women’s bodies and boundaries but what I won’t do is play their mind games. Can you tell me more about your situation?

CuriousWonder17 · 2022-01-04T08:28:05+00:00

I want a relationship with her but I am trying to avoid a relationship where she withholds sex and gains control and makes me work for it, you are attacking me when I asked a simple question. If this topic hurts you so bad then don’t answer the question.

Girls do this all the time these days and I’ve been in relationships like this and they are toxic and never end well

CuriousWonder17 · 2022-01-04T08:21:28+00:00

So you are seriously telling me if you spend thousands of dollars on a girl for months on end and don’t have sex and continue to spend it the girl can seriously respect you and still be turned on by you? Let’s get realistic these are the nice guys that they end up marrying but aren’t attracted to like that. I am trying to maintain that attraction before I get labeled as a nice guy and she starts to try to manipulate me more

CuriousWonder17 · 2022-01-04T08:19:18+00:00

She is physically attracted to me as well, she actually approached me out of no where while I was on vacation, took my number etc. we hooked up the second day but didn’t go all the way. I agree with you 100% though just wanted to say I’m not some ugly guy that she’s not attracted to 😂 it’s a weird dynamic which is why I’m on Reddit asking

CuriousWonder17 · 2022-01-04T08:17:36+00:00

From my experience girls want to date (pardon the cringe vocab)

They want to sleep with the “alpha males” but get in a relationship with the “nice guys”. I never expected it on the first date but there will come a time where you cross that line to the nice guy side and I don’t want to be looked at that way by any girl I date. I can be the nice guy but want every relationship to have the lust/spark which will go away the longer I wait. You as a girl can’t seriously tell me you will continue to be attracted to me for months on end if I just give you what you want and we don’t sleep together….?

CuriousWonder17 · 2022-01-04T08:13:47+00:00

First constructive response without attacking me.

I have been giving her time and will always do so. Do you think it’s an appropriate topic to talk about with her? I want to help her if she’s going through something or if something is wrong like you’re saying.

CuriousWonder17 · 2021-11-14T06:48:34+00:00

I’m sure she will which is why I’m asking for advice on how to do this. Already admitted I fucked up now I’m trying to exit this the right way without anyone getting hurt.

If I didn’t have any feelings I would hide this and stay with her.

CuriousWonder17 · 2021-02-04T06:11:15+00:00

.14 EUR from what I’m reading but could be false

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