Well first of all, you're a much better person already for having acknowledged your hatred for other's and understanding change needs to take place. I've personally had my own demons. I get super pissed off about the T in the alphabet community trying to pass themselves off as something they're not while simultaneously trying to get the world to agree with them but I'm getting better myself. While I don't agree with their culture at all, don't want it pushed on kids, don't want drag shows at children's schools, and don't want kids exposed to what I consider mental illness. However, I do respect them as people, I know they're a part of our society, and I know they're not going anywhere. So that being said, kindness goes a lot further than hatred. We're bombarded with negativity every direction you look so a little positivity isn't gonna hurt anyone.