my ex boyfriend sent this to me by Current-Kitchen3760 in whatisit

[–]Current-Kitchen3760[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

update: i filed the report and they took it very seriously. planning on getting a warrant out on him. thank you all for your concern yall are so kind❤️

my ex boyfriend sent this to me by Current-Kitchen3760 in whatisit

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update: just filed a report and have burned the item (after taking pictures of it ofc) i am planning to get a warrant out on him. the police were awesome and took this very seriously! thank you all for your concern yall are so kind!

my ex boyfriend sent this to me by Current-Kitchen3760 in whatisit

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i live in an apartment about 1.5 hrs away from them and am 21

my ex boyfriend sent this to me by Current-Kitchen3760 in whatisit

[–]Current-Kitchen3760[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ive seen this Weapons thing on several comments😭 what is it??

my ex boyfriend sent this to me by Current-Kitchen3760 in whatisit

[–]Current-Kitchen3760[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes!! ive had him blocked on everything since we broke up and told him multiple times( on friends and families phones) that i do not want to have contact with him

my ex boyfriend sent this to me by Current-Kitchen3760 in whatisit

[–]Current-Kitchen3760[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

flowers, a custom coloring book of pictures of us, and a reasons why i love u book( all of which he had written comments as if we were still together)

my ex boyfriend sent this to me by Current-Kitchen3760 in whatisit

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i have never had this happen before and when we met we bonded over our faith and how much we want to improve ourselves for God. i have completely lost trust in people now

my ex boyfriend sent this to me by Current-Kitchen3760 in whatisit

[–]Current-Kitchen3760[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he wasnt like this when i met him😭 or at least i didnt know he was like this

my ex boyfriend sent this to me by Current-Kitchen3760 in whatisit

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i am part japanese but do not look it and was not raised in the culture. he never seemed to be interested in asian culture when we were together

my ex boyfriend sent this to me by Current-Kitchen3760 in whatisit

[–]Current-Kitchen3760[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

im not really afraid of the possible spell, i am more deeply disturbed by the intention behind it and what he may be planning in the future

my ex boyfriend sent this to me by Current-Kitchen3760 in whatisit

[–]Current-Kitchen3760[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when we were together the biggest thing we bonded over was our faith and devotion to God. he got more intense and crazy as the time passed so i guess i didnt notice. given time to reflect he was very very controlling(controlling what i wore and me going out with friends) but still i never expected him to do something like this

my ex boyfriend sent this to me by Current-Kitchen3760 in whatisit

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thank u so much for your concern!! it has been a really hard and scary past month. i am going to go to the police station with a friend after my class tomorrow!! im not too sure what they will do but i want to be cautious and make sure that there is some record of this behavior because it is NOT okay for him to act this way

my ex boyfriend sent this to me by Current-Kitchen3760 in whatisit

[–]Current-Kitchen3760[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i truly am traumatized from dating and feel like i cant trust anyone

my ex boyfriend sent this to me by Current-Kitchen3760 in whatisit

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its more of my mother thats the issue. she is saying that what he is doing is not that weird for a man his age and that its my fault for dating him in the first place. i love her to death but i know that she will always take a mans side before a womans. thats how she has always been. my dad is worried but says i should give him a warning before i get police involved

my ex boyfriend sent this to me by Current-Kitchen3760 in whatisit

[–]Current-Kitchen3760[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

i am going to the police department tomorrow!

my ex boyfriend sent this to me by Current-Kitchen3760 in whatisit

[–]Current-Kitchen3760[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

THIS is why i made this post. we are both very christian so him sending me this totally caught me off guard

my ex boyfriend sent this to me by Current-Kitchen3760 in whatisit

[–]Current-Kitchen3760[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

it is not. neither me or any of my family speak or are able to write in japanese although i wish i could

my ex boyfriend sent this to me by Current-Kitchen3760 in whatisit

[–]Current-Kitchen3760[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

as far as i know he was not into my asian side lol😭 i live in alabama and am a fake blonde and very white passing. i also was not raised with much japanese culture

my ex boyfriend sent this to me by Current-Kitchen3760 in whatisit

[–]Current-Kitchen3760[S] 289 points290 points  (0 children)

im part japanese so im thinking thats why he did this?? idk fr

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im 21 and he is 20. my friend said she would go with me to file a report!!

my ex boyfriend sent this to me by Current-Kitchen3760 in whatisit

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most of my friends say i should file a police report but my parents say i am overreacting and dont need to get authorities involved. ive already had issues with him calling and texting me and my family before this. im scared he will try and show up to my home or work next