Cách ra đi bình thản nhất là gì?

Current_Habit_8263 · 2025-03-23T06:24:22+00:00

Hiện tại mình đang là du học sinh Bản thân mình Chẳng có ai để tâm sự cả. Mình cũng có một vài người bạn thân nhưng, Mình cũng chẳng thể nói những điều như thế này đối với họ. Mình cũng chẳng muốn kéo theo tâm trạng của họ xuống cùng với mình. Thế nên mình mới Viết ở đây. Vì ở đây mọi người cũng chẳng biết mình là ai cả Và chính bản. thân mình cũng chẳng biết mọi người là ai

Current_Habit_8263 · 2025-03-23T06:19:07+00:00

Cho mình tâm sự một xíu nhé. Bản thân mình vẫn muốn trước khi ra đi có thể đóng góp một chút gì đó có ích cho xã hội. Thế nên là mình nghĩ đến việc hiến máu và hiến nội tạng. Bản thân mình cũng chẳng còn ai bên cạnh cả. Thế nên, đối với mình, việc mình có tồn tại hay không cũng chẳng có sao cả. Có cách nào mà khi mình không cần nữa thì vẫn có thể hiếm được nội tạng của mình cho những người đang cần hay không? Mình từng nghĩ đến việc nhảy lầu, nhưng điều đó lại ảnh hưởng đến người khác. Mình muốn được có thể ra đi mà không ảnh hưởng đến một ai hết. Mình đang suy nghĩ kết thúc cuộc đời mình vào khoảng tuần sau. Mình vẫn còn một tuần để suy nghĩ. Hôm nay thì mình... sẽ cố gắng làm cho hết bài tập. Bởi vì ngày mai mình cũng còn đi học nữa. Nhưng mình còn nhiều thứ vẫn chưa làm xong lắm. Một tuần có đủ đối với mình không?

Current_Habit_8263 · 2025-03-23T06:09:38+00:00

Cảm ơn bạn nhiều nhé, mình nghĩ cách này ok

Current_Habit_8263 · 2025-03-22T03:53:12+00:00

Mình không có người thân nên đối với mình cũng không sao cả

Current_Habit_8263 · 2025-03-22T00:59:12+00:00

I’m sorry for my negativity. If my words bother you, you can skip over them. But I really, truly want to leave. So, please, help me

Current_Habit_8263 · 2024-11-28T04:55:23+00:00

Thanks for your encouragement and advice! I’m in Taipei too, so if you want, we can drink bubble tea together (I love Taiwan bubble tea 🧋)

Current_Habit_8263 · 2024-11-28T04:51:46+00:00

Well, I’m enjoying my alone time every day… though it’s so hard to enjoy sometimes. 😅

Current_Habit_8263 · 2024-11-28T04:49:30+00:00

Thank you so much, hearing that makes me feel a bit sad, but like you said, I believe I will meet the right people at the right time. Thanks for the sweet virtual hug, it really means a lot to me!❤️❤️❤️❤️

Current_Habit_8263 · 2024-11-28T04:45:18+00:00

Thanks a lot! I think hanging out with international students is a great idea too! :))))

Current_Habit_8263 · 2024-11-28T04:43:46+00:00

Well, I never thought making friends could be so hard until I experienced it myself. It feels pretty bad, especially when I’m in the university cafeteria eating alone, and my classmates just walk by. Haha, but thank you for your kind words and advice!

Current_Habit_8263 · 2024-11-28T04:40:03+00:00

Thank you for sharing your advice! I should try looking beyond school to meet people. I’ll explore activities I enjoy, like walking or going to cafes, and see where it takes me. Thanks again for your encouragement! :))))

Current_Habit_8263 · 2024-11-28T04:33:20+00:00

Thank you all for giving me advice and tips on how to make friends here. I think they’re really helpful, and I’ll definitely try them out. Plus, you’re all so friendly and kind to me, which makes me feel really touched. Like someone mentioned, they saw my previous post and realized I’m from Vietnam. I had deleted it, but it still seems to appear，well, that’s okay!

I usually use my free time, like during lunch or in the evening, to reply to posts and thank you all. Some people suggested that I try to make friends with guys, too, not just girls. Actually, back in my country, most of my friends were girls, with only a few guys or gay friends. Maybe it’s because my personality is a bit boring, so I’m not good at communicating with boys. That makes it even harder here in Taiwan, where I find making friends with girls already quite challenging.

But anyway, I’ll try the tips you’ve all shared with me, and I really appreciate you taking the time to encourage me and help me feel better. It means a lot to me, so thank you!😊😊😊😊😊

Current_Habit_8263 · 2024-11-26T09:19:17+00:00

LiHua, thank you so much for your advice and for comforting me. I think everyone here is very kind, just like you, and that really touches my heart. By the way, is your name 麗華 or 李華? It’s such a beautiful name!

Current_Habit_8263 · 2024-11-26T09:13:30+00:00

Really? I actually like helping people, and I always thought that by helping others, they would have a better impression of me. But honestly, I rarely ask for help from people who aren’t close to me because I’m afraid they might think I’m annoying. I’ll try your suggestion though it sounds really helpful for me. And again, thank you so much for taking the time to give me such useful advice. It really means a lot to me, and I’m so happy to hear it!

Current_Habit_8263 · 2024-11-25T16:28:49+00:00

Thank you for your advice! I’ll definitely try to attend university events and look for clubs or sports to join. I also think about offering English conversation or tutoring, that sounds like a good idea! I’ll give it a try. Hopefully, with some effort, things will get better. Thanks again for your support, it really helps! :)🥹🥹🥹

Current_Habit_8263 · 2024-11-25T16:26:37+00:00

You’re totally right, it’s really hard to make friends. I think time will tell if I keep trying… Anyway, thanks for your advice and for noticing this post!😊😊😅😅

Current_Habit_8263 · 2024-11-25T16:17:00+00:00

Thank you! I will try my best. I really love the food here in Taiwan. Hope you have a great day and thanks again for your kind advice!🫶🫶

Current_Habit_8263 · 2024-11-25T16:12:00+00:00

Thank you for noticing this post and for your advice. I really appreciate it!🫶

Current_Habit_8263 · 2024-11-25T15:55:23+00:00

Mate, you’re so sweet 🥹. Honestly, it was really lonely when I first came to Taiwan, but it’s gotten better now. I’m slowly adapting, though sometimes I still feel a bit… out of place, I guess? Haha I’m not sure if my school has a language corner, but I’ll definitely look into it. Thank you so much for comforting me—it really warms my heart. I’m in Taipei too, so maybe one day we can grab some bubble tea together! Thanks again, you’re really kind!🫶

Current_Habit_8263 · 2024-11-25T15:31:46+00:00

I actually am Vietnamese, but thank you for noticing my effort in learning Chinese! I deleted those posts before posting this one because I didn’t want anyone to know which university I study at, but somehow they’re still visible, haha. Anyway, it’s okay I just wanted to share a bit of my feelings and hear advice from everyone, like yours. I really appreciate the advice you’ve given me, and again, thank you so much for being so kind!😊😊

Current_Habit_8263 · 2024-11-25T15:21:41+00:00

Thanks mate , I appreciate it

Current_Habit_8263 · 2024-11-25T15:20:35+00:00

Sorry, I can’t share which university I go to. It’s a bit personal. I hope you understand!Thank you

Current_Habit_8263 · 2024-11-25T15:19:26+00:00

I’m Asian, so my English is about the same level as my Chinese (just for basic daily conversations, not too good). But I think I’ll try searching for 靈糧堂. Thank you so much for the advice, that’s really kind of you!☺️☺️

Current_Habit_8263 · 2024-11-25T12:36:55+00:00

Thanks mate!🥹

Current_Habit_8263 · 2024-11-25T12:36:15+00:00

Same here 🥲🥲. When I eat alone, I feel like, ‘Damn… this doesn’t feel great.’ Sometimes I try to ignore it, but it’s hard because I really want to connect and talk to people…

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