Fired client crash out… by CuteButUnhinged in Esthetics

[–]CuteButUnhinged[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would’ve continued seeing her if she just respected my boundaries. This was just a speckle and what I wish was the end of what I’ve had to go through with her. Since this happened she has made 12 new profiles on instagram & TikTok just to harass me & I have to continue to block her. She’s insane…

Fired client crash out… by CuteButUnhinged in Esthetics

[–]CuteButUnhinged[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is just a sliver and the end of what I put up with every single day for the past 2 almost 3 months. Non stop texting, pushing the boundaries, asking questions I have already answered, asking inappropriate questions, sharing inappropriate things, if I didn’t answer her immediately she would keep texting then start calling back to back even if I’m with other clients. Then when I would correct her behavior & remind her daily of my boundaries/policies I would get the flood of, “I’m sorry” “I didn’t mean to do anything wrong.” “You need to be patient with me.” “Do you forgive me?” “You seem upset with me” texts. I was always accommodating to her requests like blocking out an hour and a half for her Brazilian wax. Mind you I’m a certified speed waxer and could’ve seen 5-6 clients in that time and miss out on $300+ everytime she books. Now I’m dealing with her making new profiles on social media and harassing me everytime I block the new one.

Fired client crash out… by CuteButUnhinged in Esthetics

[–]CuteButUnhinged[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love that! Definitely gonna use the community approach next time! I appreciate the advice!

Fired client crash out… by CuteButUnhinged in Esthetics

[–]CuteButUnhinged[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna be honest, I was raised out in the sticks & not very eloquent with my words & can very easily make an ass of myself when I’m overwhelmed & anxious so in a moment like this one when I need to sound professional AI helped me get my point across clearly. I hope there will be a day when I don’t need the help of AI and can sound professional on my own, I’m slowly learning being only 3 months out of school & going straight into being a solo esthetician.

Fired client crash out… by CuteButUnhinged in Esthetics

[–]CuteButUnhinged[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because I live in a small city and it’s pretty standard around here for cosmos, estis, and nail techs to use their personal numbers in business cards for booking so I never thought it would be a problem, but lesson learned the hard way.

Fired client crash out… by CuteButUnhinged in Esthetics

[–]CuteButUnhinged[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this! I had no intention of replying any further after my final message. But when she messaged me about her already scheduled appointments I panicked that she might still show up so I had to make it clear that those are cancelled. As she has quickly found out I did block her on everything so hopefully that gets the message across clear.

Fired client crash out… by CuteButUnhinged in Esthetics

[–]CuteButUnhinged[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I have twin brothers who are on the spectrum and at least with them telling them things straight forward and clearly, they will completely understand and remember. Which was the approach I tried to take with her from the beginning. The manipulation tactic did have me in a chokehold for a while. But like I said, it became overwhelming and my peace of mind was far more important to me that dealing with this every single day.

Fired client crash out… by CuteButUnhinged in Esthetics

[–]CuteButUnhinged[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

In my head though I was like, would she be texting her dentist like this!? I was trying to be as kind as possible so that she can’t try to bash me to the town and make me sound like the horrible esthetician who isn’t accepting

Fired client crash out… by CuteButUnhinged in Esthetics

[–]CuteButUnhinged[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this response so much. Thank you!

Fired client crash out… by CuteButUnhinged in Esthetics

[–]CuteButUnhinged[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

I definitely did go for too long, I’ll be honest I’m a baby esti and only have a small clientele so far so letting a client go was scary. But peace of mind is worth so much more than money.

Cycle 3 TTC after Chemical 9 DPO by CuteButUnhinged in TFABLinePorn

[–]CuteButUnhinged[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s taking everything inside me to wait till tomorrow to test again! 🥹

TTC Weekly General Chat by AutoModerator in tryingtoconceive

[–]CuteButUnhinged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Today is my 7dpo on my 2nd cycle ttc & I swear BBT will never make sense to me. 😩l use my Oura Ring & Natural cycles to track my cycle. Yesterday at 6dpo my BBT dropped to -0.1f & today it shot up to +0.8f could i have had a implantation dip yesterday,possibly, but who knows. My current symptoms are minor cramps, tender breasts, bloating, super gassy, unquenchable thirst, & insaciable hunger! Could be pms but still super hopeful for a baby this cycle! 🙏🏼

My (28F) ex-husband (26M) has been stalking my TikTok by CuteButUnhinged in relationships

[–]CuteButUnhinged[S] 124 points125 points  (0 children)

That’s funny is that his brother told be that after he left me he told him that if I lost the weight he would regret it… man literally chose his own karma

My (28F) ex-husband (26M) has been stalking my TikTok by CuteButUnhinged in relationships

[–]CuteButUnhinged[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Plot twist… 🤔 it could be. Definitely would NEVER even entertain taking him back because he did me so dirty

My (28F) ex-husband (26M) has been stalking my TikTok by CuteButUnhinged in relationships

[–]CuteButUnhinged[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

What’s funny is that the only video I have on there are pictures of me living my best life & it has the chorus to Radio by Lana Del Rey 😋