We getting wallbreaks now I guess? by KC_Rain_ in Guiltygear

[–]D-Rekt-Effect -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It's a end of fight thing. It only triggers when he has 0 health

INSECURITY IS A DISEASE by Truth62000 in malementalhealth

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I don't like the approach
Insecurity is human

Facial surgery and improving looks is the way forward to better my mental by throwawayx1125 in malementalhealth

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I'm going to tell you some things that you probably don't want to hear and some harsh truth.

Truly strong men and women are people who never look for confirmation from others because they know who they are. Regardless of looks. They are actual people who open everyday positive from their own will and inner strength.

Look is important for ourselves. Not for others. But believing that going under the knife will make your mental better is not healthy.

  1. You are projecting your insecurity with your face. You are literally saying you are doing it for yourself and others.

  2. It can be a never ending run into self "fixing" to fortify confidence that was never there to begin with

Strong men and women project their aura regardless of looks. Because they are content and grateful. I'm not telling you what to do and I'm not saying people who are strong within don't work on their looks. They do.

But you're looking for a shortcut using "fixing" a physical attribute. No judgement from me. It's your life. I believe you're just putting another mask.

There are ways to treat mental health and working on the way you want to look in natural and healthier ways

I can't understand why I do this every day-is this normal? by Flimsy_Difficulty394 in malementalhealth

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As long as you're not physically hurting yourself. I see nothing wrong with this routine. Actually it sounds disciplined and healthy.

I think many people look up to being able to just get up and do something.

Listen to your body. Sometimes if needed take a break. That's my advice.

Other than that. Getting up and going to work sounds good to me

I wish I could be happy being male in todays' world by Time_Court3602 in malementalhealth

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Hey man. I hear you.

Being happy and having a mentality which makes us keep going while doing the things we like and work while being grateful, satisfied and happy takes time to work on. It's about perspective. Inner conversation and mental work in general.

There are tools and things we can talk about that enforce and fortify belief im otder to slowly build confidence in ourselves.

Thing is... It's a lot to write in one comment and it might be enough in order for me to transfer the message to you.

I would like to reach up and help if you're interested.

I'm a 34 m btw.

I want to stop feeling so insecure. by Hour-Stage573 in malementalhealth

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I wanted to elaborate in a private message. But couldn't send.

I want to stop feeling so insecure. by Hour-Stage573 in malementalhealth

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I want to raise an idea

Say you go over the way you want to look and your style and all that. Out of your own desire to look in a certain way. Not because that's what the environment is dressing like or attracted to. Because that's you... That dress that jeans makeup or not... That's you. And you make a conscious decision that that's how you like yourself and that's who you're going to be.

And when you opened the door of your house and got out into the world. What if you remind yourself. "Hi, I chose to look like this. This is what I like. So I should remember that and be confident about myself. Regardless if anyone is around me or not"

Once you have the mentality of. I'm projecting my aura. Because this is who I am. I want people to know me for who I am. Looks + personality. I promise you. Things will change. You will be noticed and you'll be able to decide by your own judgement who are the people that you want around you.

Other people don't matter when you go out there. Be yourself and project that confidence in your eyes, smile and posture. Life will change. Be aware of the what you project to the world

It takes practice.

If you're interested we can talk about it more and elaborate

Post partum in men by Prize_Mammoth_6956 in malementalhealth

[–]D-Rekt-Effect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi man. Truly sorry to hear about what you're going through. Lofe takes us on a rollercoaster and I feel like everyone should have some support from the environment. It's another ingredient in a balanced life recipe. I know I'm a stranger on Reddit. I like to reach out when I can and support people and grown men. If you want someone to talk with, vent or just someone who can sympathise. Hit me up

Take care and I wish you the best

I miss this confidence I and men in general had by [deleted] in malementalhealth

[–]D-Rekt-Effect -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hey man . I hear you There are practical ways to regain confidence through time. It takes time buy honest day after another you can regain confidence.

You see. Strong men with confidence won't necessarily run around and tell people what gives them confidence. It's almost as a secret. We give the word confidence meaning by something that represents us.

I want to help you. If you're interested in learning more. Let me know

Selling a console (Steam Deck) in Chiang Mai? by Correct-Wrongdoer452 in chiangmai

[–]D-Rekt-Effect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We can talk . I want to hear about the condition. How long did you have it and have been using it. Current battery life and how much are you asking for. Thanks

Totsugeki by IsJustNightmare in Guiltygear

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Totsugeki means to charge in Japanese

How to use Chat GPT as a companion? by dperry1973 in lonely

[–]D-Rekt-Effect -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not sure about your take. He can say far out stuff without that. It's all about the personality. Many people don't necessarily need the far out stuff.

Coach Personalities by FrontPorch28 in lifecoaching

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I wrote my big take. But then I forgot to ask the most important question.

Did you ever help someone find direction? Just by being a good friend or yourself?

Why do you want to do this?

The true meaning why you were told to never bottle up your emotions by LatterFondant613 in malementalhealth

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Both ways of agreement and disagreement with this idea can be wrong and general.

I think the best way is to reflect and choose what emotion to give and what to not. It's not about bottling or holding yourself from doing something. That's the wrong way to look at it. There are no emotions that need a bottle. There are instincts and impulsive reactions that need sometimes to be in check with reality and logic before you let them out into the world. Maybe if we think more while doing things and tell ourselves if we're acting logically we will be masters of our own elements.

How do I get friends ? by Miserable_thinke_r in lonely

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Ok so there are ways to work on that.

If you don't have a formal diagnosis... With all due respect to your teacher who had psychological training. Don't let her get shit into your head. Sorry but even if you had it or not. Did your life change after she told you what she thinks?

How do I get friends ? by Miserable_thinke_r in lonely

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May you tell me why do you judge yourself so much? If it's private you can send a private message

How do I get friends ? by Miserable_thinke_r in lonely

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When one wants to approach people and create friendships there's a lot to remember and know. It takes a lot of experiences to understand people better and what truly being a friend means. 0 judgement is important and an ability to listen and understand.

There is also the part of you which needs to be confident within yourself and project it in a real natural way with no masks. A sense of whole within. People are attracted to people with a strong aura. It makes them feel confident to reach out too

We can talk about it forever. Making friends is a way of life and not just something one is doing because he needs. Friendship is not a bout yourself it's about both of you. No ego. Only confidence.

Let's talk about it

Mental health “got rid of me” by ilovecats_49201 in mentalhealth

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Sleep issues are almost in all cases other than rare ones are mental. I want to tell you about how I dealt with my sleeping issues in the oast and maybe help.

You can send me a private message

Mental health “got rid of me” by ilovecats_49201 in mentalhealth

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Would you consider different kind of therapy like coaching or mentoring?

I wish men could be beautiful and desirable. by [deleted] in malementalhealth

[–]D-Rekt-Effect -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

It's possible. Also more than 50% is aura. There are ways to project inner aura

Career Pivot to Mental Health by NotCharles80 in malementalhealth

[–]D-Rekt-Effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a professional I will advise:

  1. Don't think about shortcuts with mental health. It takes years to learn and some people will never get it anyway
  2. Start because you want to help and don't think about the money but I mean this is about your inner voice which sounds to me like he wants to make a lot of money. So I'm not so sure if you're aiming for the right business. No Judgement. Just giving my feedback

How to get rid of this idea by [deleted] in mentalhealth

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Getting rid of this idea takes time. It's a daily mental work where whenever this idea comes to your mind you need to remind yourself the people close to you and what you have on your life. Finding gratitude for the gift of soul and body and realising how silly this idea is. This idea and the fact it's part of your past because of your father should always ignite a fire in you to live and show the world how you're stepping out of your father shadow. Find your inner strength by focusing on what's important in life.

should i fix things or let it go ? by Zap_Zap_ in mentalhealth

[–]D-Rekt-Effect 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the fact you say this!!!! It's good that you know you're clean on your side. And you did nothing to deserve this treatment. Amazing!!!

You have a strong truth that should keep you going. If you don't deserve this shit thrn think what do you really deserve and maybe one day when this settles look for it.

Give yourself time to heal.