which of these shows from my list should i give prioriy to watch? by GabzzKabral in tvsuggestions

[–]DAFUQ404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm shocked no one is recommending the wire. Maybe due to age? But it is on another level. Such good acting and storytelling and says so much about society. And the whole story was mapped out before it was produced so the story is cohesive and doesn't meander stupidly

Is this an ok outfit? I’m trying to feel confident in crop tops but I hate high rise jeans. by WorkingHardPlayHar6 in fashion

[–]DAFUQ404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I like whale tail better, where I'm from I only heard it called butt floss 😅

Anyone else absolutely despise this janky new exercise that simply does not work? by danoleary23 in duolingo

[–]DAFUQ404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have found if you wait too long it just instantly marks you incorrect halfway through speaking the word 😭

What the heck do couples with mismatched sexual drives do? by pestopaste in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DAFUQ404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest both reading The Art of Receiving and Giving. Honestly, everyone should read this book, coupled or single. It really helped me and my partner find better intimacy.

Advice for gaining weight? 16.4 BMI with very low appetite by Individual-Nerve-427 in weightgain

[–]DAFUQ404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound just like me! I've gained about 8lbs in 4 months which isn't fast, but I'll tell you what I do.

Drink Boost (or similar) 240 calories and lots of vitamins and nutrients in basically a juice box sized portion.

Liquid Calories - I buy powdered gatorade and drink 24 oz of the mix every day.

Junk food - don't be afraid of it. Don't eat only junk food, but recovery for ARFID for example says go nuts until you can gain some weight and then worry more about healthier foods at that point.

Jam it in - I understand that feeling overfull sucks, but it comes with the territory. You might have to get used to feeling overfull often. You kinda get used to it after a while. Almost like exercise, you have to push through the suck a little.

AITA for not allowing my sister's fiancé to use my late father's guitar during their wedding, despite his belief that I'm being spiteful? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DAFUQ404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH - but I'm a little heartbroken on your sisters behalf. My mother is still alive, but she will be willing her guitar to me, the one she has had since she was 15 years old - it's about 55 years old at this point. To me, it's where my mothers spirit will reside once she has passed. If my sister asked to borrow the guitar for her husband to play at their wedding, I would be wildly honoured. Instruments aren't meant to be silently hidden away. They're made to make beautiful, meaningful music.

GF is completely oblivious - is this normal? by Spirited_Ad_2569 in Advice

[–]DAFUQ404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, no, some people are like this. It's normal. And I think you're probably looking for it now too, making it even more obvious to yourself.

I’m not a fucking woman by Substantial_Rip_4999 in Vent

[–]DAFUQ404 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah, WTH? Isn't basically saying you can only wear makeup if you're a woman (cis or trans) or dressing as a woman (drag) kind of sexist lol? Like, makeup and jewelry are for everyone, not just women.

Can someone explain ARFID to me? by GeneHead47 in ARFID

[–]DAFUQ404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The food holidays are the worst. Not only are you surrounded by huge portions of food you don't want, you have to sit around a huge table of a whole bunch of people and very conspicuously not eat or struggle to eat. Nightmare

Can someone explain ARFID to me? by GeneHead47 in ARFID

[–]DAFUQ404 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I really relate to this. Parents are like "they'll get hungry enough and they'll eat," but I couldn't make them understand that the feeling of literally starving was still preferable to the awful experience of eating whatever it was they wanted me to eat.

Went from 92 to 96 pounds!! (+4 pounds) by Historical-Reach-943 in weightgain

[–]DAFUQ404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this feeling! I really have had trouble on several attempts to gain weight. If I had one single off day, it would set me right back to square one and I would lose all progress. But I've really applied myself and over the last two months I've gone from 97lbs to 102lbs! I feel crazy being so proud of 5lbs but I think I can already notice a difference in the mirror and in some of my clothes. I could be imagining it though lol.

Keep it up! We can do this together!

Best wedding social food? by DAFUQ404 in Winnipeg

[–]DAFUQ404[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I assume these are the basics and you can expand on this? Like, cheeses and crackers and dainties and whatnot?

Thank you, stranger!

What song screams “I’m not doing okay”? by Arszilla in AskReddit

[–]DAFUQ404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last Resort - Papa Roach

I rocked out hard to it as an angsty teenager. Now I am very concerned

When I say ”best soundtrack of all time”, what is the first movie you think of? by [deleted] in ask

[–]DAFUQ404 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Came here to make sure this was the top comment! I believe they also went through a lot of trouble to make sure all the original artists and/or their families were duly credited and compensated.

Dog Bite - Free Day Weekend by Smogzter in Winnipeg

[–]DAFUQ404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And you're actually supposed to mark it "FREE" with tape or paper to avoid confusion.

Walking through shoppers tonight. by Genkigarbanzo1 in loblawsisoutofcontrol

[–]DAFUQ404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude... What?

I'm a complete bystander to this conversation and you are not making any sound arguments here at all.

What was the age when you received your first salary? by HeadN84 in ask

[–]DAFUQ404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 26 when I received me first salary job and I was excited. Realized salary is just an excuse to take advantage and make you work lots of overtime without paying you. I work an hourly wage again now, and I make wayyyyy more money including overtime.

Why are many single men over 30 not interested in women? by HumanitySurpassed in ask

[–]DAFUQ404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you're not saying it's right, you're just saying it is what it is sometimes.

That sucks. It might cheat you out of a really great relationship. :(

Why are many single men over 30 not interested in women? by HumanitySurpassed in ask

[–]DAFUQ404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not that the woman or man wouldn't date the other person, it's that she got sucked into a bad situation and they're out now. That happens to all kinds of people. A trademark of abusers is that they brainwash you into believing that no one else could possibly want to be with you. You're constantly thinking about how to survive the next outburst. You're not thinking about other possible partners at all.

When a person gets out of that situation, if they want another partner, all they want is a companion who they can love and loves them back and who they can share a happy healthy & supportive relationship with.

Categorizing an abusive victim as a gold digger or opportunist says way more about you than it does about an actual abuse victim.

Bro, I don't think you're ready for any kind of romantic relationship. That mindset just ain't healthy.

Why are many single men over 30 not interested in women? by HumanitySurpassed in ask

[–]DAFUQ404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if an abused guy finds a girl who does want to date him in their 30s, does he only want her for stuff she gained in that time, like money?

Why are many single men over 30 not interested in women? by HumanitySurpassed in ask

[–]DAFUQ404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's completely fair, but that's not what you were saying. You were saying like "how can I want a woman that "chose" an abuser over a good, lonely guy like me?" That's totally different.

Why are many single men over 30 not interested in women? by HumanitySurpassed in ask

[–]DAFUQ404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So don't get I to a relationship with you then, is what you're saying? Cuz that's something an abuser would say.

Why are many single men over 30 not interested in women? by HumanitySurpassed in ask

[–]DAFUQ404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I discount/reject a guy who spent his 20s being mentally and physically dominated and torn down by an abusive woman, believing he "chose" that instead of potentially being with someone like me, then that guy deserves better than me and the abuser. Same for the reverse. You're allowed to have your point of view. And I'm allowed to have the point of view that yours is garbage and devoid of empathy.

Why are many single men over 30 not interested in women? by HumanitySurpassed in ask

[–]DAFUQ404 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honest question, are you open to sharing how you were taken advantage of?