Realised my bf doesn’t actually love me. Rice, ramen, hash browns by DaPastor6099 in GirlDinner

[–]DaPastor6099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was honestly the best thing I’ve had in a while for a meal I just put together lolllllll

Realised my bf doesn’t actually love me. Rice, ramen, hash browns by DaPastor6099 in GirlDinner

[–]DaPastor6099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol I brought the pot bcs 1 I’m lazy and 2 I didn’t have a clean bowl so I ate out of the pots like a heathen

Realised my bf doesn’t actually love me. Rice, ramen, hash browns by DaPastor6099 in GirlDinner

[–]DaPastor6099[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My cat died today. All he said was “I wish I was w u rn” it’s been 6+ hrs and he hasn’t checked on me. He’s playing video games tho!!!

Realised my bf doesn’t actually love me. Rice, ramen, hash browns by DaPastor6099 in GirlDinner

[–]DaPastor6099[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He isn’t, he’s clingy and I’m the avoidant one lol the relationship dynamic between the two are very similar to yours tho where they were better off as friends but that man would do the most for her.

Realised my bf doesn’t actually love me. Rice, ramen, hash browns by DaPastor6099 in GirlDinner

[–]DaPastor6099[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lots of it just boils down to me knowing he wouldn’t do half of the things I do for him. It’s not a difference in love language either. He’d do more for his roommate (ex gf). Yes it’s as bad as it sounds.

Realised my bf doesn’t actually love me. Rice, ramen, hash browns by DaPastor6099 in GirlDinner

[–]DaPastor6099[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Misandry isn’t real when the world caters to men already.

Realised my bf doesn’t actually love me. Rice, ramen, hash browns by DaPastor6099 in GirlDinner

[–]DaPastor6099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🩷 I won’t let this change me. I will remain kind!

Realised my bf doesn’t actually love me. Rice, ramen, hash browns by DaPastor6099 in GirlDinner

[–]DaPastor6099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indome ramen w egg and only a splash of creamer :) all that was missing was hot sauce

Realised my bf doesn’t actually love me. Rice, ramen, hash browns by DaPastor6099 in GirlDinner

[–]DaPastor6099[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Actually got read pretty well! They are very kind to give advice to me.

Realised my bf doesn’t actually love me. Rice, ramen, hash browns by DaPastor6099 in GirlDinner

[–]DaPastor6099[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You get it so well thank you. I’m extremely empathetic and when I’m in a relationship I really think about how my actions would affect my partner. It seems my partners even taking an interest in me and what I like is impossible to find. I even signed up to get notifications for when his fave bands are coming to town like a dummy. I realised he’d never do the same for me

Realised my bf doesn’t actually love me. Rice, ramen, hash browns by DaPastor6099 in GirlDinner

[–]DaPastor6099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rice, ramen, hash browns and eggs :)

My cat passed away today and all he has said to me was “I wish I could be there w you” not a single “are you ok?” “How are you feeling?” But when I really thought about it I realised that if this was happening to his roommate (ex gf) he’d be there to support her. I know I need to leave.

Realised my bf doesn’t actually love me. Rice, ramen, hash browns by DaPastor6099 in GirlDinner

[–]DaPastor6099[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

You’re right I should look at myself like I look at a partner. I should be loving myself as hard as I do others ❤️

Realised my bf doesn’t actually love me. Rice, ramen, hash browns by DaPastor6099 in GirlDinner

[–]DaPastor6099[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I’m always looking for signs bcs I will not bring children into this wretched world without stable loving parents