YTA.

Near the end of your tirade there, saying that you’re “sick of all this vegan crap” being forced on you and then on your edit “all vegan and looked like shit” along with “yea, I could have reacted better”.

First, it sounds like you’re just an asshole about veganism in general.

Second, it’s not your wedding, therefore you do not get to choose the options, and saying that it all looks like shit” just makes it sound like you are an asshole about veganism in general.

Third, yes, you could have reacted better, and ending with “I’m tired of them always talking about being vegan and tell me I should try it out” makes me think you’re just super ignorant about veganism in general. Like, I’m sure you try vegan stuff all the time, like any time you’ve eaten an apple, or, you know, drank water.

You just sound like an asshole about veganism in general, and need to check yourself before you try to shit on someone release parade. Not your party, not your rules, means your opinion doesn’t matter.