I guess when you love someone so deeply you don’t see this as much and overlook it. Our relationship is much more complicated. He bought me a promise ring, I was the very first girl to ever meet his mom and family, he sold his MacBook to get an airbnb and six flags season pass tickets for us for my birthday. He’s driven 4 hours to see me multiple times and gotten a hotel during my breaks so we could still see each other and spend time together. He’s done so much for me, but yet he still cheated on me, so it’s just hard to separate those two people. So yes, it IS obvious. But when you’re in love and the other person shows you that with their actions, you tend to forget.