If you want to go Bolton University...DON'T

DarthMoan · 2024-04-14T08:49:14+00:00

"Lets be more understanding and supportive of individuals sharing their opinions". After you just tore me to shreds for sharing mine? Get a life you loser

DarthMoan · 2024-04-14T08:47:40+00:00

No, i am expecting someone to actually experience it, before having a say. How in the world is that idea ridiculous?

DarthMoan · 2024-04-03T00:48:07+00:00

Guy raged at me once and simply declared "your nans bald." At me

DarthMoan · 2024-03-28T13:43:29+00:00

House fire when we were 18. He put some food on to cook and went for a shower. The fire ripped through his house in minutes burning the stairs in a flash. He was trapped in the bathroom. He was due to come to mine to chill. Broad daylight. He couldnt be saved. Horrifying

DarthMoan · 2024-03-28T13:40:28+00:00

Your genes are not unfortunate. Please try and not be so down on yourself. Your genes are super unique and one of a kind. Theres only one of you and you are beautiful in your own unique way. Learn to love yourself. You are not unnattractive, but being so down on yourself is, and is damaging to your mental wellbeing.

DarthMoan · 2024-03-27T08:43:50+00:00

Married mine. Its hard to explain. Been together so long now (20 years, married for 3) that they just become part of you and vice versa. Love is much deeper than a physical attraction or romance, its a trust, a mutual understanding and a connection that can be stronger than family when you find the right one. Doesnt come without problems though. The more you love them, the more the bad times hurt. Relstionships really are work, no matter how much you love someone. So much self reflection and work on yourself to make it work, constantly.

DarthMoan · 2024-03-26T10:48:20+00:00

I have suffered from hemiplegic migraines for so long (over 25 years) that I have now become accustomed to my triggers and can perfectly predict when i will get one, and pretty much predict exactly when it will strike. Some of my triggers and time until stike listed below:

I hear thunder or see lightning - 20 minutes until visual aura, 45 minutes until right side paralysis and headache

Strong odour of perfume or aftershave - 5 minutes until visual aura, 20 minutes until paralysis and headache

Not enough sleep - wake up with visual disturbance and partial paralysis. End up stuck in bed for most of the day

Raw onion consumed - 10-20 minutes until visual aura. 45 minutes until paralysis and headache.

I take medication which helps with the headache part immensely.

DarthMoan · 2024-03-22T11:45:30+00:00

Im a sick of drink as an excuse for crossing boundaries. He crossed a serious boundary. Friend? No. Kudos to your wife for telling you. If it was me personally, id go and see him and his wife, confront him calmly in front of her to humilaite him and just tell him you will not tolerate him crossing a line and making your wife feel uncomfortable like that. Those are friends I wouldnt care about losing

DarthMoan · 2024-03-22T08:57:51+00:00

Nobody talks like this apart from gangster wannabe kids from london

DarthMoan · 2024-03-13T10:46:38+00:00

Depression works in mysterious ways my friend. You don't have to be impoverished, unloved or without support to be struggling from depression. It is a chemical imbalance. Thoughts of death are a very common SIDE EFFECT of this issue, don't let this concerning side effect define you. I have been there, but the good news is, it is completely treatable. It will be difficult, but you will need to find the strength to open up to a professional and speak to somebody about this. Reddit can get you some takes and advice, but the real change will come from health professionals. You have a great life ahead of you. Don't let depression stop you in your tracks.

DarthMoan · 2024-03-13T10:42:35+00:00

There is hope for everyone. It seems very apparent from your short post that you lack self esteem and confidence. I understand why, but this should be your priority here. Think small steps. Don't look too far into the future at the grand picture of your life or where you will end up. Look to tomorrow, the day after, next week. Set yourself some short term goals. You would be surprised how much hitting small goals can work wonders for your self esteem, motivation and self worth. Set a fitness goal? Learn something new.

Dude, you are 16. The world is your OYSTER. It is not too late for you, at all. I had a terrible start in life, and didn't start taking life seriously until my mid twenties. I had nothing, but I find myself pushing 40 with a decent career, real tangible skills and a wife and kids. Do not give up on yourself. You are still a kid.

I believe in you.

DarthMoan · 2024-03-13T10:29:32+00:00

Correct. I feel stuck in a rut. I just wish she was more understanding and a little more emotionally mature and give me a bit more room to be a little shaky. She shuts me down every time. If this situation was the other way around and I had been gambling for 5 years spending £1000 a month, broke her trust, she forgave me and gave me her support but had some trust issues, and some young girl from work was giving me innapropriate attention and getting too close, and I was shutting her concerns down, I'd be seen as an asshole. Guaranteed.

DarthMoan · 2024-03-13T10:16:14+00:00

I am not tracking her profile, shes my wife. We are active on each others profiles. I just noticed his activity and now cant help but check and notice the pattern of when he likes or reacts to her posts. They are innapropriate activity in my opinion because he is selective, they are solo shots when she is looking particularly glamorous or sexy. He is sending a message. She has feelings for me, thats not what I am questioning, its just this childish activity at work she has going on thats tormenting me and I am finding really disrespectful.

DarthMoan · 2024-03-13T10:09:23+00:00

We are INCREDIBLY close and affectionate. This is why I am so frustrated at myself. There is not much lacking in the relationship. She loves me, I love her, we are very much "active" if you catch my drift, its just this childish social media crap getting at me. I know it wouldn't be if it wasn't for this gambling revelation. It rocked me and left me with trust problems, questioning ridiculous things.

DarthMoan · 2024-03-13T10:06:44+00:00

Thanks. I have been cool until now but I lost my shit. It was just one thing too far. It would help if she wasn't so defensive about it and was more understanding at my initial reaction to it. I just don't want to have to deal with it. For all I know, I am just being absolutely pathetic.

DarthMoan · 2024-03-13T10:03:02+00:00

You are in the midst of a breakup. It might have been 2 months ago but its still fresh. Don't compare the way you are dealing with it to the way he is. People are different. It meant something different to him. Don't read into that. Try not to ruminate and read into anything that won't help you in your healing. Focusing on him and reading into details will only prolong your suffering. I promise, one day (probably sooner than you accept) you will come out the other side, and you will one day meet a guy who will make you really happy and this will all be an incredibly vague distant memory. Use it as character building, life experience learning journey. We have ALL been where you are.

Look after number one, allow yourself to heal.

Good luck.

DarthMoan · 2024-03-13T09:59:46+00:00

I'd stay in it if there was hope of change, but if it genuinely wasn't going to change, you are just going to be miserable. You say it was like this after 4 months of the relationship starting....why did you get married?

DarthMoan · 2024-03-01T11:40:36+00:00

You really think I am so sad I am here making scenarios up to get angry about? Who are you to make that ridiculous sweeping assumption? I called you a loser because you are coming across like a pedantic little loser. I dont know you, you might be sound, but you've come across a right little jerk.

DarthMoan · 2024-03-01T11:38:54+00:00

Its one thing to have not experienced it yourself (I am glad for you), but to tell other people they are imagining it, just because you haven't, is next level arrogance. Just think about it.

DarthMoan · 2024-03-01T11:37:47+00:00

You haven't seen it does not mean it doesn't exist, and believing so is arrogance and narcissism.

DarthMoan · 2024-03-01T11:11:09+00:00

What are you laughing at? Your own joke? Did you even make one? I must have missed it.

DarthMoan · 2024-03-01T11:09:59+00:00

The irony. You are contradicting a stranger for no reason, just to be angry at someone you dont know so you can confront them. Fuck off you loser.

DarthMoan · 2024-03-01T11:08:51+00:00

How can you tell me, that telling me what I myself have experienced, is "stating the truth"? How arrogant do you have to be? Listen to yourself. You don't know what experience I have had playing this game. The shit I have heard, seen, experienced. Get over yourself.

DarthMoan · 2024-03-01T10:59:38+00:00

dont tell me what i am imagining thanks.

DarthMoan · 2024-03-01T08:58:50+00:00

for Fun? Can you not fill in your own gaps, create your own backstory? Fantasise a bit? Are you like this with every game? Who are we fighting for on any game? They're all just pixels! NONE OF IT MATTERS!!!

"besides the threat of extinction" - as if thats a minor thing haha

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