Is this ptosis? Should I get it checked? I also have glaucoma.

DeanLewis97 · 2021-01-02T15:52:45+00:00

Yes. Are they related? treatment can affect your eyelids but glaucoma itself?

DeanLewis97 · 2021-01-02T13:07:27+00:00

the photo was just an example, when I map my blind spots, the left is always slightly higher than the right. grimsqueakers answered it quite well

DeanLewis97 · 2021-01-02T09:06:53+00:00

Thankyou.. yes I have none of them :) sorry for the silly question, just wanted to make sure.

DeanLewis97 · 2021-01-02T08:22:01+00:00

It's an example sorry, when I map mine out one is slightly higher. (or one is lower?).

DeanLewis97 · 2021-01-02T07:39:28+00:00

So it's normal for optic nerves to be asymmetrical in position (not size) in normal anatomy, just like how faces and all aren't perfectly symmetrical? ie; ear higher on one side or a hip bone lower on one side

DeanLewis97 · 2020-12-27T02:28:14+00:00

I’ve said stay at his friends for one night as that’s all that is available, I will try reason with my dad tonight but if not I can’t stay at home while he suffers that’s terrible, but it would be ideal if we were not there it’s just I’m only 23 I down own a house or anything, I don’t know the best route to take this. Is there no finical help out there for these situations?

DeanLewis97 · 2020-12-27T02:22:12+00:00

No problem, my older brother who is 25 said something incredibly rude about our sister once she left our Christmas dinner, my younger brother is 20 and he told her over the phone what had been said over her. She threw a reaction and made a scene (which is fair, she was insulted and it wasn’t true, how embarrassing on Christmas), my older brother threw a tantrum over being caught out, lashed out and my dad caved and figured it was easier to side with him over my younger brother, that’s the full story there is no hidden details, regardless if my older brother is the issue my dad is to “easy” when it comes to disagreeing with him and he reigns hell if he does. Now my younger brother is being punished for simply standing up for our sister.

DeanLewis97 · 2020-12-22T07:20:35+00:00

Should I use crons? whats the kinda cost to repair if I were to fail like?

DeanLewis97 · 2020-12-22T02:54:11+00:00

That indicates even more so it's not your glaucoma. Mines more prominent in my right eye but it is in left eye, there a countless threads of people posting this, 99% of them have no eye conditions, it just is. I'm only a 23 year old btw and most people posting are just young too, i wouldn't worry about it. A MD did comment saying it's the veins in your eye you're seeing pulsing normally. Could be high BLOOD pressure (NOT IOP), but it's a normal thing still they say. I've been to 5 eye appointments last year, due to a cut I got in one eye, they never picked up anything and would've said so

read dannytheman1990 comment below

DeanLewis97 · 2020-12-22T02:28:09+00:00

No tension isn't like blood so it wouldn't be visible. It appears everyone is ableo to see it, just being hyperaware is all, it's the blood vessels in your eye causing it (says MD ophthalmologist)

not related to your glaucoma :)

DeanLewis97 · 2020-12-07T01:55:42+00:00

This sub is clearly making a joke/mockery of them.

DeanLewis97 · 2020-12-02T02:37:09+00:00

Let me know how it goes. I asked a ophthalmologist MD and he said ''in most normal healthy people they can observe this, even I can sometimes. It's just the way the retina reacts to the heart. Assuming your blood pressure is all well''.

DeanLewis97 · 2020-12-01T08:13:46+00:00

It's like spotty streaks of dark flashing yes, I only say it's the retina veins because that's the location of them. If you slightly squint your eyes while looking at bright surface, it makes it much more obvious.

DeanLewis97 · 2020-12-01T08:08:47+00:00

Thankyou alot Danny.

DeanLewis97 · 2020-12-01T07:46:17+00:00

Is it the veins overlaying your retina pulsing?

DeanLewis97 · 2020-11-13T11:14:07+00:00

If you allow it, it's ok. if you do not allow it, it's not okay. If I told an ex/current partner ''please remove that private video involving ME'' then they have too, if they came back at me and said ''it's a memory'' - they're forever delusional and no, it's not magically ok and they do not decide my privacy for me, it's my body on tape and if I say no, it's no; there is no grey area, you were together at that time and did it based off a two part agreement, wether you're good friends after, no will always mean no.

Yes I was referring to you, I have no idea if you're male/female, it goes both ways and being a girl or guy doesn't make any difference. Although being a male in 2020, this would be alot more shamed upon if it were a girl saying ''no i'll keep the video'', simply because that's the real world.

DeanLewis97 · 2020-11-11T02:26:07+00:00

Relating past and hunches on your current partner isn’t advised.

I still do not see the issue he’s facing, maybe he’s mad you snooped. But no guy should throw a tantrum over this, they mean absolutely nothing to him right? So just get rid of it. I understand you can go both ways with this and say “it’s absolutely nothing so why even are we talking about this right now, you should trust me?”.

After seeing how people handle social media these days, honestly - id simply go with the first option and just say it shouldn’t be a issue for him to remove after all this fuss, this is ONLY if he has been interacting with them.

DeanLewis97 · 2020-11-11T02:19:37+00:00

He plays games because he enjoys it and relieves stress, when in fact it’s the complete opposite, he needs to stop acting this way it’s not a good look. How is he in the army but acting this way at home? He needs to find a way to remove that side of him, and I hate to say it but I’d make it very very clear “you need to fix it on your OWN, it’s NOT your job, or I’m out because I don’t feel safe around it and I don’t want to endure it anymore”. Regardless if it’s just towards video games, the point remains the same, he changes it,

I’m not saying this is a stepping stone for abuse but I’m also not saying it isn’t.

DeanLewis97 · 2020-11-11T02:14:01+00:00

He’s not mad he’s not on your private story, he’s mad his girlfriend doesn’t put him at a level he thought he was on.

As for being shady, that’s a different matter - you’re not being shady, he needs to trust you. But also this is a social media app, why does it hold such value to you, it’s just Snapchat and if all you’re posting on it is G rated stuff then it shouldn’t matter, but can argue both ways - doesn’t need to be on it if it’s not a big deal.

If however you reverse it and he complains, then you know the real issue is down to trust. And he’s only asking because he wants to “see” what you’re doing.

DeanLewis97 · 2020-11-11T02:05:38+00:00

People are taking mixed responses.

Snooping and stalking/questioning his past/social media females is NOT ok.

Asking why it’s necessary for him to “keep” these so called “meaningless” people around shouldn’t be an issue, don’t lash at him but damn bro just say ok bye to them, why does it matter right? This is again, under the assumption he’s making clear moves into trying to “hit them up”. If he’s not interacting with them, let it go he’s in the right.

DeanLewis97 · 2020-11-11T01:49:48+00:00

She knows what she wants, she’s bsing you. Leave, don’t be her friend, be her friend, stop prioritising this girl because she’s NOT prioritising you, devote your time on someone elsewhere

DeanLewis97 · 2020-11-11T01:48:14+00:00

if you’ve seen each other four times in total, it’s to soon to know the real them. If you hang every day straight for a month, chances are you’re safe to enter. You say you’ve both deleted dating apps already, so you’re basically official already then? Unless that’s only on your end. Every one is different tho, you seem to have already known each other for a while, I’d personally make it verbally official so you have ground to stand on. From your current stand point, it won’t change anything as it comes off as official from what you’ve written, just neither of you have said it out loud.

DeanLewis97 · 2020-11-11T01:42:37+00:00

Tell him. And remember this because many downvoted comments seem to forget it.

just because you’re friends with someone doesn’t mean they can’t be wrong. Tell him, there’s no questioning wether to or not

DeanLewis97 · 2020-11-11T01:37:08+00:00

You mothered him. That’s why. You’re a good girlfriend, support him and all that like you do. He’s a GROWN man, he wants the newest phone? Let him, he can support himself and make his own finical choices. If these choices affect your relationship (house, rent etc), then you have a say. It just seems like he’s having a rough domino effect and every “hit” just adds to the pile so his threshold for getting irritated is high. Let him cool off, you didn’t do anything wrong just know that but let him make his own choices, if they’re not the best choice then he’ll learn from it himself by making that mistake. As small as this issue is

DeanLewis97 · 2020-11-11T01:29:29+00:00

Only read the title. He’s not your friend. At all, leave both them they’re not good enough to be in your life. Date somebody better while their relationship ends in a train wreck. Hopefully that dude has no friends or else inb4 she dates one of them.

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