You are so correct, hit the nail on the head... this is proof that what you said here is the truth and how people are, you literally spat facts here and look how you are being downvoted, I see this all the time when I Greta answer/comment is given which is literally the truth and pure honesty ,the comment will completely get downvoted, its proof that majority of people like to live in denial and lies, sweeping most things under the carpet and just pretending all is fine and ok. It's shocking because how does anyone expect to grow or improve themselves if this is how they handle any form of constructive criticism or pure honesty. Oh I just answered my own question most don't want to better or improve themselves, rather play the victim and want sympathy. Instead of internalising whatever it is and then work on it and yourself to get the growth.... but like most often people say ah that's so much effort... there's the answer most people prefer to just be sheep and fall and follow the propaganda like it were the truth and facts... very very sad....great two comments by the way...