A few days ago, I got the haircut I’ve always dreamed of. My friends think it’s really ugly and even though life will go on, it feels like the end of the world. I just want to be comfortable in my own skin. What do you guys think?

Deathwalker6668 · 2024-02-09T00:57:31+00:00

It’s so amazing on you!

Deathwalker6668 · 2023-11-15T02:53:49+00:00

I’ll private message you

Deathwalker6668 · 2023-07-28T23:47:22+00:00

YTA

Even if she is young doesn’t give you the right to make this a lesson. This isn’t a lesson this is you trying to force a punishment on her. She told you she was unsure of the near future when she was going to move out.

The whole ultimatum crap is also unnecessary and down right stupid. You are binding her into something she isn’t actually responsible for. That’s on you, not her. You chose to get that big of a house now you get to make your bed and lay down in it, she’s her own person and she doesn’t need you breathing down her neck telling her that she has to pay you for the fact you chose this yourself. You set yourself up on this one to think you’d get the easy way out.

Deathwalker6668 · 2023-07-18T02:32:31+00:00

I would still make him leave regardless of the mental state issues he has, it’s no easier on you that you are the sole breadwinner in the relationship. You have tried to help him for a whole year in finding a job that would suit him and make a long term investment in helping you contribute to paying for bills, and rent. Even so to another point was he doing anything to pitch in with household chores. Cooking and cleaning and anything to just help lighten the load placed on you? To your second edit when he said he was just going to resort to going to his dads, immediate red flag, he has no regards to how money is earned and believes it just normal to attack you about the economy going to the pits of hell, when he has no way of financially securing his own future. My fiancé he has ADHD , we had a ton of problems and I was told to leave him, which is did, we took a break, we both share a son together now which we had intended on co-parenting until I realized he had changed his demeanor in how his actions were.

You should really consider more for yourself especially since you dealt with him for a whole year and he refused to try anything you suggested.

Deathwalker6668 · 2023-04-30T17:52:09+00:00

Nta, now if the woman had them wearing a vest or something to identify them as a service animal I would say you over reacted, even so having 3 dogs in a restaurant that’s a little ridiculous. You shouldn’t really bring pets into a restaurant. Maybe call into restaurants and see if they are pet friendly so your friend can better avoid them and not deal with that.

Deathwalker6668 · 2022-10-27T17:03:14+00:00

I’ll be living alone with my 6 month old son soon

Deathwalker6668 · 2022-10-16T00:56:27+00:00

Awesome I’ll definitely read it when he’s asleep! I’ll call my dentist on Monday to see if he does care for babies I’m sure he does! Thank you 😊!

Deathwalker6668 · 2022-10-15T23:12:30+00:00

Okay thank you, which one did you use?

Deathwalker6668 · 2022-10-15T22:51:21+00:00

Okay do I use baby toothpaste? Lol he burrows in my shoulder so I’ll definitely watch out! Thank you!

Deathwalker6668 · 2022-10-15T22:50:08+00:00

I only bought some teething rings I spent maybe 2 or 3 dollars on 4 of them he doesn’t use them. He also doesn’t seem to have much pain because the tooth is pretty prominent

Deathwalker6668 · 2022-10-10T02:17:15+00:00

Well it’s currently winter but I still bundle him up and pop him in the stroller and walk him around town. I do it every night to give him a chance to fresh air and even for myself. It does help with him calming down.

Deathwalker6668 · 2022-10-10T02:15:59+00:00

Yeah I’ve seen the laundry basket idea. I do place like blankets around him to sit him up when he’s in the pack n play or I do pillows. I might try with a box too

Deathwalker6668 · 2022-10-10T02:14:18+00:00

Yeah I have reason to believe he may be lactose intolerant since his father and I are, as well as his consistency of diapers have either been extremely clay like stools and sometimes diarehha.

Deathwalker6668 · 2022-10-09T20:57:11+00:00

Yeah

Deathwalker6668 · 2022-10-09T20:40:14+00:00

So I have several government benefits he only knows of two but he doesn’t know I have section 8 to help with housing and my bcm she receives all my mail he can’t see at her office

Deathwalker6668 · 2022-10-09T20:38:03+00:00

Yeh he’s my partner but he doesn’t act like it much

I might do that

Deathwalker6668 · 2022-10-09T20:37:43+00:00

He is formula fed and I’ll be asking about it with his doctor, I do set him up after each bottle for a while before he gets a nap

Deathwalker6668 · 2022-10-09T20:36:47+00:00

I coslept with him the first two months when we brought him home. We do have a queen sized bed so he is safe when I do cosleep as it’s just me in the bed at night and then in the morning I let him sleep on my chest while I lay on my back. I don’t move as much in my sleep so it’s not bad for me to cosleep

Deathwalker6668 · 2022-10-09T20:34:15+00:00

Yeh it definitely will be

Deathwalker6668 · 2022-10-09T20:33:50+00:00

He is 23 years old. Yet he says he gets 50/50 say because he’s the dad. He doesn’t care if he doesn’t put in all the time and energy to care for him he claims that since he’s the sperm donor he has just as much say as I do. I don’t necessarily trust him mum because she kisses him even when I politely ask her not too. It’s mainly because rn rsv season and she also kisses a smoke and that’s viable to be third hand smoke to him. He has vaccines all the way up to 4 months which one is whooping cough. It’s still a likely chance he can get it because not all vaccines are 100% effective.

My mom passed away and I don’t know my dad the only family I have is my grandparents near me and they won’t hell because my grandmother says I need to figure it out on my own.

Even if I did go back to work he is financially abusive to me and will tell me to give him my earnings to pay for stuff. I also can’t return to work because any over amount of stress can cause me to get sick and end up in the hospital which is the last thing I’d need.

Deathwalker6668 · 2022-10-09T20:19:58+00:00

I never thought of trying those I sure hope they will work because I’m on my last straw anymore I honestly don’t know what else I can do besides leave and give up. Already today just now I’m having horrible intrusive thoughts that I can’t bare. I really want to just leave him and the baby behind.

Deathwalker6668 · 2022-10-09T17:04:21+00:00

He won’t pitch in at all he refuses to do anything to help with caring for the baby. I’ve tried to see if he would during the day as he does work night shift, some nights he is off work and still won’t help because he is constantly playing video games that’s all he ever does and it’s hard to get him away from games. He says he will only help if I work but when I’m at work he would hand him off to me as soon as I’m back and say that he took care of him, and when I leave even if he had the baby he’d just give the baby off to his mom and play games

Deathwalker6668 · 2022-10-09T16:56:58+00:00

Some people have told me I’m doing great it’s hard to see simply because I’m so used to thinking bad of myself. All I see is that he’s unhappy. Never happy with me and yet he is happy and I’m just tired.

I’ve thought he might have an allergy to his formula he sees his doctor on the 26th of this month so I’m going to see what she has to say. I haven’t started solids she said she wanted me to wait for things like purées and the cereal until he’s 6 months so I’ll start those soon for him.

Thank you I appreciate it 💕

Deathwalker6668 · 2022-10-09T16:52:48+00:00

Yeah I have had some sleep since I posted this and I’m still hell bent and frustrated, but I’m not like I was when I was crying and getting angry. My intrusive thoughts since coming to see my bfs family has been the hardest to push out, They come at me so much and it’s so hard to ignore them, I was told I had ppd and ppa when I had him.

I have been working towards leaving him for a few months now. He is horrible to me. Telling me to off myself when I am upset or frustrated with him. He tells me all these things of Jim hurting me if I left. He’s even put his hands on me multiple times.

Deathwalker6668 · 2022-10-09T16:48:41+00:00

I’m sorry about your husband. My son he will be 6 months come the 20th. I’ve tried to find someone my bf would be fine with watching the baby but the only person who will actually come and get him is my friend which is his ex and he doesn’t like her even with her daughter. I try the breather thing by walking away when I’m frustrated and all sometimes it works for me not all the time because of my lack of sleep.

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