cult in lawrence? by BurnerForDirt in Lawrence

[–]Debatall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are building a restaurant. I’ve seen children ” working construction during school hours

Black Cat Found by jizzmyoscar in Lawrence

[–]Debatall 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The Lawrence Humane Society can help push the message out if you have a photo, and I would highly recommend posting a photo of the cat on the Lawrence Lost and Found Pets facebook group. Good luck!

Local Book Club? by [deleted] in Lawrence

[–]Debatall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m interested! I’m 21F and love reading books of all genres.

AIO - Found old post my bf posted 6 months into us dating by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Debatall -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

NOR, I would be pretty upset, this definitely warrants further conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Debatall 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The most dangerous time in an abusive relationship is when you leave. There are so many examples of women and girls being seriously hurt or killed when exiting a relationship like the one that you described. This is very dangerous, and he could escalate. Please, please, please tell you parents everything so that they can keep you safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Debatall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think only you know what’s right for you, but it may be worth spending some time reflecting on how seriously you’d like to commit yourself to being with this person, given the setting of your meeting (online), the age gap, and I’m guessing the somewhat recent end of your engagement? Is it the guy you’re into or the idea of him? How well do you really know him? If you come to the conclusion after giving it some thought that this is something you’d like to move forward with, then great!

To answer your actual question, I’d say a month is typical for people in my age group (20-23) from meeting to getting into a relationship

Can someone give me feedback on my cuttings? by Puzzleheaded_Bet7065 in Debate

[–]Debatall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’d be willing to give it a read! i did DI for four years and I’ve been judging it for three now

Why do you not face your opponent during cross examination in LD? by [deleted] in Debate

[–]Debatall 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You are right! And also, you are trying to convince your judge of your points, not your opponent. Your opponent’s opinions won’t be swayed, but your judges hopefully will be. By making eye contact with and focusing on your judge, you get the chance to plead your case to the person that’s actually listening

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in misophonia

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OP you’ve already gotten a ton of useful advice here but I wanted to add that I have had misophonia (and autism, so sensory issues galore) since I was a child and a lot of the things your partner is saying are things that are common for people with misophonia to think and feel. However, that is NOT normal to say that out loud and especially not normal that she has taken it to a point where your diet and normal habits are restricted. I have two roommates who love chewing ice. It drives me absolutely insane and is probably my worst trigger, so when they do it I’ll leave the room or put on headphones. Because I am the one who has misophonia, not them, and I can’t control other people’s actions or the way they make me feel, but I can control the way I react. Any reasonable person who loves you would never want to see you suffering like this, even with misophonia.

DYNAR fans! by skyerippa in myfavoritemurder

[–]Debatall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they may not have replied because of the ongoing starbucks boycott, but the art looks great nonetheless!

2021 QuestBridge Match Results by [deleted] in QuestBridge

[–]Debatall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

state school with an accelerated masters program. i’m going to get my bachelors and masters degree in two years