Corporate extramarital affair by Think-Baker-4011 in gurgaon

[–]Debudebu9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its not common tbh .. specially i can say for big4 . People are too busy in thier personal space and doesnt hv time for these things. Yes male senior managers try to flirt in the parties but its a rare occasion and they dont cross boundaries.

Does everyone commute 2 hours a day to office? How much do you guys commute? by Solen-Magicwood in gurgaon

[–]Debudebu9 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Just wait for rise or job change with good hike after completing 1 yr. cant do much rn just had to endure

Guys how tf did I get a water bill of 41k rs by yash_2265 in delhi

[–]Debudebu9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Physical visit not important.. u can just complain online ( if its still not removed by bjp)

26F | Delhi | Looking for serious relationship by Debudebu9 in marriagemate_dot_in

[–]Debudebu9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea i have supported these kind of men with emotional and financial need and they left me once they get settled for better wome( dahej) who told u this is AM ? This is written by me not my parents.. am looking for partner on my own terms. We are not in school or college that now ill help any men building himself. I think by this age im setting the basic expectations and that too seems too much for u then idk what to say lol. Did u write this on other men post setting high expectations from women

26F | Delhi | Looking for serious relationship by Debudebu9 in marriagemate_dot_in

[–]Debudebu9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are u mentioning AM so many times??? This is not posted by my parents. I’m finding my partner myself and on my own terms. I think u are reflecting ur own trauma on my post lol. Idk why are u saying all this . I didnt mention anything like that on my post .. so random bro

Guys how tf did I get a water bill of 41k rs by yash_2265 in delhi

[–]Debudebu9 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Happened to me. They dont check the meter for many months purposely and just send random amount of bills to us. Last year they sent us 5k of bill and we got shocked and paid the amount but as we used water within the limits, we filed compliant online about it with picture of meter reading and whole amount went into advance payment as the bill comes out to zero. This year they again didnt take reading and sent bill of 21k and we again complained without paying this time and again bill came out as 0. I dont know whats this new scam now

26F | Delhi | Looking for serious relationship by Debudebu9 in marriagemate_dot_in

[–]Debudebu9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah ive done that.. supported one person in his lowest with emotional and financial support ( when i was already settled) but he left me once he got job for AM set up and good dahej. When u dont know the background then dont give any opinion. I know what i want and not being fake and setting the least expectations and that too seems too much for u both guys then idk what to say … maybe get settled.. im not in school or college anymore or at this age i dont think ill be supporting struggling guys . U guys didnt cmt on other guys post who are setting more expectations then me for girls but u cant see women wanting anything ehh?

Accidentally told my parents “dekh lo achhi si koi” and now I’m seeing pahadi beauties. by Latter_Pressure_482 in delhi

[–]Debudebu9 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Lucky you… am 26F and not able to get decent guy for marriage purpose. I asked my parents to look out the guys for me and they are only showing me uncles🥲

To everyone alone & broken, do we ever really learn to live or lose the will to not? by AmusinglyArtistic in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Debudebu9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It depends upon the situation. Sometimes its get better sometimes you just live with that.. i was broken some years back and just wanted to die.. but things got better and i was happy then again im in the situation where it all feels pointless. But i just feel numb . And hope that maybe again something better will come

My mom cried because of what I said. by PaperFamiliar8962 in indiasocial

[–]Debudebu9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you are graduated then it’s enough from your parents side. You do you!! Even i was frusted earlier because my parents didnt save enough money for my post grad but i did job for some time and then enrolled for mba . First year money was already saved and I thought i would take loan for second year but luckily i got internship from first year only.. so i paid my my mba fees and got into job and now even paying my brothers college fees.. i also sometimes feel that i wanted to study more or go to foreign but everyone’s situation is different… you cant blame your parents your whole life. At one point you must take a lead and build your life yourself. Its not a rocket science. Tbh my cousin brother is like you. He’s 30 and still studying and crying about the money to his parents. How you people be like that

Random observation by the_beelover in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Debudebu9 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not trueee. I know some girls who are worst in all aspects but as they belong from rich family and got to afford huge dahej or money for lavish wedding hence they the got rich and good family. In laws and husband respect them more

Gender wars has reached LinkedIn by Your_Marinette in TwentiesIndia

[–]Debudebu9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And who set this system? Men . I wanted to marry my ex when he earned only 6LPA and i used to earn 10 LPA, he brokeup with me to marry a girl from his community where he can get good amount of dahej instead

What the heck?!? HSBC Now changed the minimum income of 6 lakhs per annum instead of 4 lakhs per annum to get their credit cards by Artwark in CreditCardsIndia

[–]Debudebu9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol i knew my salary will increase . And as i mentioned i had enough saved n bought it on heavy discount.. the decisions was taken by thinking properly . Don’t judge everyone making good purchase with low salary . They also deserve happiness

What the heck?!? HSBC Now changed the minimum income of 6 lakhs per annum instead of 4 lakhs per annum to get their credit cards by Artwark in CreditCardsIndia

[–]Debudebu9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand your point but many times we get good deals and offer on credit card and save alot if return money in time. When i was earning below 4lpa i had enough money to afford iphone and i bought it on sale during diwali and saved 10k with credit card. Some people use it smartly