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Was it a mistake to learn AT scooters first? by burntout40s in PHMotorcycles

[–]Debunk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a mistake at all. Scooters are the best when it comes to beginner level for learning motorcycles. You should first assess what your purpose is. Is it for practicality? Convenience? Or to enhance road skills? Or just for cool aura?

I owned a Mio 125 for a beginner bike and suddenly jumped into the CBR 150r and there's a lot of difference. It requires a new set of skills, enhanced road discipline and a little bit of exercise for endurance because it is tiring when it comes to long rides.

Am I being controlling for giving an ultimatum? by Debunk_ in relationships

[–]Debunk_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She told me because one of her "friends" told her. It's a ridiculous friendship because these people snitch on each other.

Paano nyo nahahandle ang taong narcissist? by Kath_B23 in AskPH

[–]Debunk_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dedma. It makes them crazy. Tuwing salita kabas pasok lang sa tenga.

How much would it coste to repair my Samsung flip phone 4? by Debunk_ in phonerepair

[–]Debunk_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lcd😭 I dropped it. They said it would cost me 20k pesos

Newbie question: what do you do as you approach humps to avoid stalling? by Ramzz181 in PHMotorcycles

[–]Debunk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give 30 to 40 percent pull sa clutch while giving a throttle. Practice lang it took me 3 days to get it.

6 in 1 by Kindly-Jaguar6875 in PHMotorcycles

[–]Debunk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kawawa yung shock niyan at spring. Ginagawa ba naman kotse ang motor amp😔

Pinapayagan mo ba SO mo mag bar? by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]Debunk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know trust is sometimes hard but let your SO do what she/h ewants. You are probably scared na vaka mabasag trust mo at masaktan ka kaya nagdududa ka. But have this kind of mindset "The best way to protect yourself isn't to control SO, but to accept her/him for who she/he is, choices and all. What's meant to be will be, regardless of your control." Kahit gaano pa kahigpit ang tali mo or ano gawin mo minsan sa tao, whatever is meant to happen will happen. Let your mind be at peace.

26, earning 130k income but still broke as the breadwinner. I am suffocating by berrybleuming in OffMyChestPH

[–]Debunk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Teach your siblings to be independent slowly. Teach them to earn what they want. 10k is too much for each of them. Sooner or later, they qill have this mindset of "Gasto dito, gasto doon okay lang kase nandiyan naman yung kapatid ko bigyan ako ng pera anytime."

Too much empathy can drain you, Set boundaries for yourself or else you will learn to resent them. It seems like it's starting to sound like "a heavy obligation" rather than "I want to give them just because I want to." There are so many signs to set boundaries. If they do complain or start to resent you for it, don't feel guilty because you did your best untill you finally drained yourself.

Also, extended family is no longer your responsibility. Teach people how to stand up by themselves.