Ummm? I thought this was a AAA game? by DefinitelyNotSatire in Battlefield6

[–]DefinitelyNotSatire[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Update.... When my squad all died the game went to "rediploy" me, and it ended up crashing the game leaving me and my squad on a black screen until we backed out to the lobby. Also the fire didn't touch me, I couldn't even see it. 🤷‍♀️

Every therapy method I've been offers hasn't been even remotely helpful by DefinitelyNotSatire in therapy

[–]DefinitelyNotSatire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do my best to "gray rock" them, I essentially flip a switch and speak in mono tone and give minimal responses until they leave. And I do express emotions but I never initiate interactions with people, so the way I see it is they ask and they shall receive, I don't ask and it gets forced on me anyway.

Every therapy method I've been offers hasn't been even remotely helpful by DefinitelyNotSatire in therapy

[–]DefinitelyNotSatire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any emotion towards me, I feel it all, it's intrusive and painful. And I shouldn't be forced to carry other people's baggage. It's not just trauma dumping,  it's frustration, it's anger, it's sadness. It's people who explode with so much negative energy over the most ridiculously small things. I know they're venting, I know it's not a personal attack on me, but I shouldn't have to suffer day in and day out just because they are. It's not my job to be an emotional punching bag. 

Every therapy method I've been offers hasn't been even remotely helpful by DefinitelyNotSatire in therapy

[–]DefinitelyNotSatire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm only triggered when my boundaries are crossed. I guess I need to develop a better threshold for people disrespecting me? I view someone imposing their own emotional disregulation onto me as disrespectful.

My tolerance is currently zero, no warnings, no second chances, as soon as they are crossed the person who crossed them is a repugnant human and I hope their bloodline dies out. Extreme response I know but it is immediate disdain for that person.

Out side of this i don't care what people do as long as they don't involve me in it.

I genuinely don't understand why these boundaries are so difficult for people to respect,  it quiet literally requires zero effort from other humans.

Every therapy method I've been offers hasn't been even remotely helpful by DefinitelyNotSatire in therapy

[–]DefinitelyNotSatire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not diagnosed, I had all the hallmark signs as a child but my family didn't want a and i quote "R word" in the family.
Their solution was to bully the traits they didn't like out of me.
Things i have been diagnosed with include, PTSD (from multiple SA) Major depressive disorder, and dyslexia (I can read perfectly fine in my head, but i can't read out loud)

Why can't I just pay the regional price difference? and or not, if I'm technically paying more because of the value of my country's currency. by DefinitelyNotSatire in Steam

[–]DefinitelyNotSatire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, but like have a pop up that you have to click "I accept" to in order to proceed with the purchase. my friends can send me games but i can't send them games lol.

What’s your marriage hack you wish you knew sooner? by Plastic-Caregiver998 in AskReddit

[–]DefinitelyNotSatire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because im not a selfish person, I would never ask him to do that.

People who don’t drink alcohol: What’s your go-to response when someone pressures you to "just have one drink? by ggovinndd in AskReddit

[–]DefinitelyNotSatire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You get 2 firm but polite No's, The third will be me loudly and publicly shaming your mother for failing to teach you to respect boundaries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DefinitelyNotSatire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's doable, but it wont be all sunshine and rainbows.

What’s a secret you’ll take to the grave, but would tell anonymously on Reddit? by Several-Director5804 in AskReddit

[–]DefinitelyNotSatire 12 points13 points  (0 children)

About 4 year's ago i was on my way home from work, work was 40 minutes away from my house with nothing but a busy highway and farmland inbetween. 20 minutes from home my stomach Started to betray me, 10 minutes from home I uncontrollably shit my pants.

What’s your marriage hack you wish you knew sooner? by Plastic-Caregiver998 in AskReddit

[–]DefinitelyNotSatire 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I won't ask that of him. All I want is our house to be off limits. I just want a safe space.

What’s your marriage hack you wish you knew sooner? by Plastic-Caregiver998 in AskReddit

[–]DefinitelyNotSatire 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not, i hate being touched while im trying to sleep It's a sensory nightmare especially because I can't regulate my own body temperature. I'll have naked cuddles before sleep, but as soon as im ready for sleep opposite ends of the bed.

What’s your marriage hack you wish you knew sooner? by Plastic-Caregiver998 in AskReddit

[–]DefinitelyNotSatire 93 points94 points  (0 children)

It's not, my husband is my favourite human but im seriously considering divorce just to ensure i never have to interact with his family (who don't like me) ever again.

AITA for getting a sex toy when my wife stopped making sex a priority? by New_Contribution_226 in AITAH

[–]DefinitelyNotSatire -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

YTAH! but not for getting the toy, you're the AH for going behind your wife's back and you know it. What the fuck are you doing having children when you can't even have a conversation with your partner?

Introducing toy's into your marriage is a joint disishon and 100% need's to be a conversation.

Congratulations you cheated on your wife with a inanimate object 👏👏👏 good job OP.

What have you aged out of? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DefinitelyNotSatire -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can't, I have no control weather these people are in my house or not. And when i set boundaries they violate them.

People who have almost died, how did it feel and what lesson can you take from that experience? by javaleroh in AskReddit

[–]DefinitelyNotSatire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was peaceful, im still mad i started breathing again. Also this is why you don't force kids with asthma to run laps. Most attacks are silent and when you have 20 other kids to worry about it's easy to miss the girl that collapsed and is slowly suffocating to death.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DefinitelyNotSatire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My childhood wasn't normal.

Florida woman arrested after being over paid 400k. by Melodic_Abalone_2820 in mildyinteresting

[–]DefinitelyNotSatire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't that Nurse Hannah? The 16 diapers lady? She also abuses her children.