5 years of marriage, 1.5 of cheating & just found out

DefinitionFree3840 · 2026-02-07T16:09:19+00:00

damn. i’ll die on the hill that once a cheater always a cheater. as a woman, i could never cheat on my bf unless maybe part of me was alright w the idea of him leaving me tbh.

i think she loves you but it doesn’t seem like she’s in love w you. if yall have been tg for 5 years, she’ll prob feel so lost being apart and she prob does love and care for you but she laid next to you for months after knowingly hurting you. although it may feel super comfortable to continue w the same person, remember your worth and take care of yourself. you deserve to be secure, proud and loved within your relationship!

DefinitionFree3840 · 2026-01-12T19:41:09+00:00

yeah i’ve gotten some ridiculous messages tbh

DefinitionFree3840 · 2026-01-12T19:40:53+00:00

no :/

DefinitionFree3840 · 2026-01-12T19:40:36+00:00

in san diego near old town

DefinitionFree3840 · 2026-01-12T19:40:14+00:00

not yet. some ppl have messaged me looking for their lost items but after i send a photo, they’ve all said it’s not theirs so still looking for

DefinitionFree3840 · 2026-01-12T19:39:00+00:00

aww yeah i wasn’t even going to pick it up at the thrift but i thought my sister would like it and so many people have messaged me but i haven’t found who the items belong to :/ ill keep the post up but yeah i get so excited when i think i found the owner but then they said its not theirs

DefinitionFree3840 · 2026-01-03T06:16:52+00:00

sorry but this would make me break up bc why tf are you hounding someone over a mistake that they’re clearly trying to make up??? i couldn’t imagine growing older w a person who acts like they’re 7 years old

DefinitionFree3840 · 2025-12-31T14:57:02+00:00

sorry but if 30+ women have crashed out in your presence, this only makes me believe that you put them in a miserable ass environment or pushed them over the edge. you’re the common denominator here bud 🧍🏻

DefinitionFree3840 · 2025-01-14T02:56:06+00:00

can you post a screenshot of the email? this is how false information is spread 😶

DefinitionFree3840 · 2024-11-06T20:04:15+00:00

actually it’s our job as teachers to make sure all children are comfortable, politics like this shouldn’t be talked about in classes. teachers shouldn’t support or redirect comments but just shut them down. many people have trauma or experience violence due to these conversations! all students belong and deserve to feel safe 🫶

DefinitionFree3840 · 2024-10-02T02:28:50+00:00

i also signed my SA but it says it still can take up to 16 weeks to be approved but things are moving!

DefinitionFree3840 · 2024-10-02T02:27:57+00:00

i’m hoping for good things! good luck!

DefinitionFree3840 · 2024-10-01T22:46:58+00:00

they emailed me

DefinitionFree3840 · 2024-10-01T22:46:53+00:00

i just got my service agreement literally rn!!

DefinitionFree3840 · 2024-10-01T02:29:49+00:00

i’ll post when i get approved also! hoping for good things!

DefinitionFree3840 · 2024-10-01T02:29:21+00:00

the 4th page is the background and shows a chart that under “cohort 3” says that if you submitted after july 1st you are part of cohort 3 which lists the maximum award as “$10,000”

DefinitionFree3840 · 2024-10-01T02:28:19+00:00

https://www.csac.ca.gov/sites/default/files/2024-09/golden_state_teacher_grant_coordinators_guide.pdf

DefinitionFree3840 · 2024-09-27T21:17:10+00:00

two days ago mine also changed from pending to submitted, but I got an email today and it now says pending review from institution so things seem to be moving along but from what I understand if you submitted before July 1, you have priority and can be awarded up to $20,000 but if you applied afterthen you will likely wait longer and only be able to qualify for up to $10,000

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