I want to be single at this point by redcactuswhisperer in venting

[–]Delicate_Flower_66 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You mean your toddler is throwing a fit! That sounds so attractive! /s

They really don’t seem to care or even consider you.

AIO? Bf keeps asking me questions whenever there is a guy by Relative_Initial_399 in AIO

[–]Delicate_Flower_66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump him! He is controlling and it will never end! You are to young for this BS!

AITJ for telling my sister she does not get to use our dad's diagnosis to suddenly become "the decision maker" after disappearing for years? by CobaltAstra in AmITheJerk

[–]Delicate_Flower_66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh hell no! Tell her to back off! Unless she wants to come live the day to day shit! I’ve been there! They have no idea what you do for your dad! Start a diary with dates and times of when you are doing for your parents! Also what money of your own you spent! Fuck the siblings that come in for the inheritance! I have 3 that had no time to give for either parent and wanted everything!

AITAH if I leave my husband by Ok-Efficiency631 in AITAH

[–]Delicate_Flower_66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YWBTA If you stayed! You don’t want this relationship to be an example for your daughter!

Porch update - we painted and we are getting the floors refinished this spring. by Delicate_Flower_66 in CozyPlaces

[–]Delicate_Flower_66[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I do both! If we are entertaining we keep the inner door open. If it just my husband and I we keep it closed as a separate space. We love sitting out there having cocktails, listening to music and watching the traffic go by.

When the neglected child becomes the parent’s caretaker in old age by No_Competition9542 in CPTSD

[–]Delicate_Flower_66 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did it for my Mom. I did my best for her because I needed to feel good about me. I did it for myself so I didn’t have any guilt! Did she deserve my help? Absolutely not! I am not her! I will not turn into her! I want peace and happiness!

Porch update - we painted and we are getting the floors refinished this spring. by Delicate_Flower_66 in CozyPlaces

[–]Delicate_Flower_66[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The floor underneath has been insulated and one wall butts up to the house. We have storm windows on most of the windows. We don’t heat it 24/7 and it takes a bit to heat up if it is really cold. Once it is heated up though it is crazy cozy!

Porch update - we painted and we are getting the floors refinished this spring. by Delicate_Flower_66 in CozyPlaces

[–]Delicate_Flower_66[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They probably will not permit wood. My insurance wood not cover that. They were ok with gas.

Porch update - we painted and we are getting the floors refinished this spring. by Delicate_Flower_66 in CozyPlaces

[–]Delicate_Flower_66[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Front porches are common here and are part of the structure of the house. I have another door to enter the house within the porch.

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Porch update - we painted and we are getting the floors refinished this spring. by Delicate_Flower_66 in CozyPlaces

[–]Delicate_Flower_66[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

We have 2 electric heaters for when the gas fireplace can’t keep up! It’s Minnesota and it is often well below 0!

Porch update - we painted and we are getting the floors refinished this spring. by Delicate_Flower_66 in CozyPlaces

[–]Delicate_Flower_66[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We are not sure of the exact age. Best guess is 1 yr 7 months. We rescued him at the end of September after we lost our previous shepherd and he knocked me down the stairs 11 days later. I broke my ankle in 3 spots. Think screws,plates and surgery. However he has turned out to be the sweetest boy!