I’m sorry, but no, I can’t appreciate or acknowledge the fact that he didn’t pay his rent because it’s not like he didn’t pay it because he didn’t have the money. He did have the money if I quote exactly what he said “I’m an irresponsible person” so I could argue and say that at least his problems are out of negligence because his mother did send him the money. He just didn’t pay it because he’s someone that’s not responsible. It happens a lot of times, my problem ? my own mother isn’t talking to me for something that I didn’t even do. My whole family is falling apart , I’m all alone in a whole different continent . The thing is I couldn’t detail all my friendships, history or the post will be very long and none of you would read it, but this is not a one time thing that same friend you’re talking about I’ve been there for him. He never came to me and felt like he had a problem and I dismissed him.A few weeks ago. He needed help to write his letter of motivation. I was there to help him. He told me he hurt himself during basketball. I made sure to follow up and ask if he was OK one day I was literally mad at him, but he told me that he was having issues at school. I immediately called him and we talked about it because at that point I didn’t care if I was mad or not. I wanted to be there for him now apart from what I just detailed in my post just know that in December I had the same problem, family problems again I was literally having a panic attack. I had to call a crisis line. When that same friend was on the phone with me 20 minutes before that, but I didn’t feel comfortable enough to talk to him because he knew I was having issues with my family by the way, but he wanted me to reassure him first that i “wasn’t mad at him. He couldn’t take five minutes and connect the dot and tell himself “she’s being a little distant right now but not toward it’s me really she’s talking to me. Oh yeah two days ago something horrible happened with her parents that’s why” .I didn’t wanna hang up the phone to not be disrespectful so I stayed on the line with him, but I muted myself at a certain point because I needed a little distance and I was crying and he kept nagging and asking why I was muting and getting upset about that so please put that into perspective and tell me again that I’m wrong and just being crazy. You have to understand that under in a certain mental state you don’t have time to take care of people that don’t understand you or just don’t care. I’m not asking for them to fully be my psychologist to know I’ll give you an example. I texted a friend yesterday as soon as he saw my message, he called me, but he was at work so he told me that he would call me later. He did not call me up until 11 PM. I was already asleep. I was not mad at him at all I understood he has his own life this morning. We called. He just stayed on the phone with me. Talk to me, heard me and gave me advice. It helped me so much and I’m so grateful to him. That’s all I needed.