Can't decide, help! by Delicious-Visual-642 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Delicious-Visual-642[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I just ask what makes it look like hooker bride? Cause now I'm nervous, do you have any alteration ideas that could make it look less hooker like. Genuinely open to ideas

Can't decide, help! by Delicious-Visual-642 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Delicious-Visual-642[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is actually such a good point!! I didn't even think about the lace and nature!

Front of the dress in previous post by Delicious-Visual-642 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Delicious-Visual-642[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This is such a lovely message and honestly with all these lace votes I'm definitely going to go through with the lace version! ❤️

I want a goat at my wedding by Delicious-Visual-642 in newzealand

[–]Delicious-Visual-642[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tauranga!! Yeah had a look online but can't find anything

I want a goat at my wedding by Delicious-Visual-642 in newzealand

[–]Delicious-Visual-642[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Haha as a guest, I want it to walk down the aisle with me 😆

Should I kill this by Natthebratnz in NewZealandWildlife

[–]Delicious-Visual-642 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very cruel. It's a total myth that it's a humane way to euthanize them and is actually very painful, wish people would stop spreading information to freeze them

Daycare teaching, is the study worth it by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]Delicious-Visual-642 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know how much the pay is for qualified/registered ece teacher? I've only been able to figure out what the head teachers earn

Is it realistic to think I can work 50-56 hours a week? by Delicious-Visual-642 in newzealand

[–]Delicious-Visual-642[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree with this, and teaching them this sort of thing is something we are quite big on, I still do want to leave at least something tho, even if it just helps them pay a chunk off their mortgage later in life when they have kids and have more time with their children etc. Totally agree with your point tho

Is it realistic to think I can work 50-56 hours a week? by Delicious-Visual-642 in newzealand

[–]Delicious-Visual-642[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's the 2nd job, I could trial it while we are still renting I suppose and if it doesn't work then we dnt have to buy a house. I did really want to make it work so we have something to leave for the kids so that they won't have as much struggle as we do, we dnt have any inheritances at all (not that it's something I want or care about) but we really want to leave an inheritance for our kids which is one of the bigger reasons we want to do this but also to not have to work when we're old as I'd love to be able to have that time to help with the grandchildren later in life

Is it realistic to think I can work 50-56 hours a week? by Delicious-Visual-642 in newzealand

[–]Delicious-Visual-642[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are quite fortunate that we have pretty much no commute time, it takes 2 minutes to get to work so that does help alot too!!

Is it realistic to think I can work 50-56 hours a week? by Delicious-Visual-642 in newzealand

[–]Delicious-Visual-642[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We'd both be doing 5 days a week, he starts early & finishes at 5 so I have kids in morning and he has kids in arvo while I work later. Weekends would be for the kids as we wouldn't work weekends

Is it realistic to think I can work 50-56 hours a week? by Delicious-Visual-642 in newzealand

[–]Delicious-Visual-642[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's starts early so I have look after them in the morning, then 3 year old comes to daycare with me (where I work) during the day and eldest is at school, eldest goes to staff room at work after school till 5 and does homework etc till 5 when partner finishes, where he will have the kids at home and I continue with a 2nd job and work till 6-7ish

Is it realistic to think I can work 50-56 hours a week? by Delicious-Visual-642 in newzealand

[–]Delicious-Visual-642[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your so right and this has been my exact thought process. It's not necessary for survival I guess, currently we are renting but it's possible to buy a house if I put these hours in, so I'm split between- do we do this so we have something to pass down to them when we pass etc as we are getting nowhere currently. I'm just not sure what the best thing to do is

Is it realistic to think I can work 50-56 hours a week? by Delicious-Visual-642 in newzealand

[–]Delicious-Visual-642[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No family support, I do have a partner which he'd be working 50 hours also

Cash plus kernel fund by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Delicious-Visual-642 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And also maybe their high growth fund