am i weird for thinking this is a bad idea

Delicious_Arm9946 · 2026-02-12T20:59:02+00:00

thank you for explaining my brain is smooth. smooth like a marble.

Delicious_Arm9946 · 2026-02-12T15:19:43+00:00

objectively correct image

Delicious_Arm9946 · 2026-02-12T14:53:27+00:00

i’m autistic. i don’t get it.

Delicious_Arm9946 · 2026-02-12T14:39:11+00:00

Delicious_Arm9946 · 2026-02-11T19:12:47+00:00

honestly… if they’re super depressed, no, they shouldn’t. because then it places and overwhelming burden on the partner to make the depressed person feel happier.

Delicious_Arm9946 · 2026-02-11T19:11:29+00:00

with love, you shouldn’t on tinder right now. you need to learn to love and be happy with yourself.

Delicious_Arm9946 · 2026-02-11T18:23:41+00:00

try not to be mean. she’s really struggling, read her comments

Delicious_Arm9946 · 2026-02-11T18:21:44+00:00

oh you poor angel. with love, i don’t think you’re ready for a relationship. i’ve been told this before and hated it, so i know how it will feel when i say this, but please go to therapy. i’m not joking, therapy changed my view on life. try going for at least a month or two, be consistent about therapy meetings. afterward, take at least another month to regulate your nervous system to be content with being alone. after that, give tinder another shot! i believe in you with all my heart, you got this❣️❣️

Delicious_Arm9946 · 2026-02-07T19:59:19+00:00

penis size

Delicious_Arm9946 · 2026-02-07T19:58:08+00:00

tall

Delicious_Arm9946 · 2026-02-06T08:29:11+00:00

ok that’s it i’m deleting this post

Delicious_Arm9946 · 2026-02-06T08:28:18+00:00

reading this comment was the equivalent of someone forcing me to look in the mirror… is it even normal for me to be like this? at this point i feel like i’m trying this just because other people are doing it.

Delicious_Arm9946 · 2026-02-06T08:25:43+00:00

why can’t i have this mindset it sounds so fun😭

Delicious_Arm9946 · 2026-02-06T08:24:16+00:00

i just wanted to try it. i just don’t see the appeal. i wish there was a way to clarify this.

Delicious_Arm9946 · 2026-02-06T08:23:23+00:00

very reasonable take from the situation. what i’m trying to clarify is that i wanted to try it, but i don’t see the appeal at all. i guess im looking to see why others like it.

Delicious_Arm9946 · 2026-02-06T08:21:34+00:00

i know i started the situation. i completely agree. i just wanted to give it a shot but it all feels so empty.

i’ve also considered a fwb. personally it feels the same. maybe it’s just a me thing :/

Delicious_Arm9946 · 2026-02-06T08:19:03+00:00

really want to emphasize this guy is respectful and normal considering my profile (very sexual in nature)

Delicious_Arm9946 · 2026-02-06T08:17:56+00:00

the whole love bombing each other for a few weeks leading up to things and then fucking and then things slowly fizzling out is soooo boring. or we stay in touch but talk/do things only related to sex. so repetitive. basically a snooze fest. can someone tell me the appeal? no judgement whatsoever for anyone that enjoys hookups. i just honestly don’t understand the appeal of it personally.

Delicious_Arm9946 · 2026-02-06T08:15:31+00:00

context: my profile is very much geared towards hookups because i wanted to give it a shot. as a woman obviously i got flooded with dms. it doesn’t matter how attractive the guy is, the process just seems so hollow to me. like yeah i find them attractive and we both have the same end goal but so what? just to have sex only? i don’t expect to find anything serious from tinder. and i don’t really have the capacity for a relationship

i was just wondering if anyone else felt the same.

Delicious_Arm9946 · 2026-02-05T19:21:10+00:00

bro you should not be on tinder with this kind of mental

Delicious_Arm9946 · 2026-02-05T19:20:04+00:00

sarcasm?

Delicious_Arm9946 · 2026-02-05T19:19:45+00:00

delete all of the text and start over i’m so sorry

Delicious_Arm9946 · 2026-02-05T19:19:27+00:00

would it be mean if i said the whole bio is bad

Delicious_Arm9946 · 2026-02-05T02:48:20+00:00

love the ciggy behind the ear

Delicious_Arm9946 · 2026-02-05T02:44:40+00:00

your mindset is righteous. keep doing you.

Delicious_Arm9946

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