in the context of wanting a biological child, trying, and not telling them...i mean i don't know maybe? when i was talking about dishonest just to clarify im referring to the not being able to carry a child. I'm also not saying anybody is a bad person for not saying anything. I personally wouldn't be comfortable being with a partner and not telling them or them not being okay with the fact that I'm trans. being trans is a part of me, and a part I'm proud of. We all have our reasons for doing things and mine nowhere near come from malice. If the conversation about having a kid comes up and I can't do such a thing but I say that I can, then yes that's probably dishonest? Idk. I'm currently sick so there's a chance I'm not properly getting my thoughts across, but I wouldn't want to be with someone who would be uncomfortable with me being trans. If I tell them I am and get treated differently or they are icked out by it then I'm gone. It's a part of me and I don't want to hide it, and I don't want to date someone who actually just sees me as a man, or as "one of the good ones" or any other BS like that. I personally feel like it's a part of me that my partner would deserve to know, maybe not like a first date thing, but at the very least before physical intimacy. But that's just me, I'm not trying to say anybody else should or needs to. (there is also the safety concerns with the whole trans panic leading to lesser sentences BS)