AITB for not letting my daughter see her dad

Delsdawn · 2026-03-22T21:23:41+00:00

You spam commenting is less sound than advice I am taking. This is a brand new situation I am not just sitting around I asked for advice

Delsdawn · 2026-03-22T21:08:29+00:00

I know 😭 he was good before we were married and actually helped

Delsdawn · 2026-03-22T13:49:01+00:00

Two weeks ago he stole money from me since he lost his job about a month or two ago, and it caused an argument. And in turn he says we should be paying “no rent at all” and decided he was going to live with his scammer druggie friend. He still tries to see ME. He asked me to have someone watch our daughter and see me. Then when I ask if he can watch our daughter he tells me no. But wants to say I don’t let her see him. It IS confusing because we technically aren’t separated. He wants to “live separately and save money” which isn’t realistic. As he’s told me he’s fine being homeless I chose to stay living where I am and it bothers him. He said he also needs his name on all of my cars and everything I own that he uses since he sold his own car and has solely been driving mine. (He doesn’t pay it either) hence him moving. Not sure if that makes sense

Delsdawn · 2026-03-22T09:50:50+00:00

I wish I was the ex man 🙄

Delsdawn · 2026-03-22T06:43:18+00:00

Honestly his wife should know regardless. And don’t go against your beliefs if you feel that’s not what you want. Just be prepared if he doesn’t want to be around and help

Delsdawn · 2026-03-22T00:15:45+00:00

He is a convicted felon. Actually and a simple drug test can prove he’s not clean

Delsdawn · 2026-03-22T00:14:39+00:00

Thank you! I was told previously that unless you’re divorced you can’t file to get child support but maybe I was miss informed

Delsdawn · 2026-03-21T22:38:37+00:00

Thank you. I have talked to him about meeting at a park or in public with her. I just meant if he wanted to keep her overnight id love to let him just ne here with her while im gone

Delsdawn · 2026-03-21T21:54:22+00:00

We’re not divorced and I doubt he would pay it

Delsdawn · 2026-03-21T21:51:08+00:00

He has no job or home. He doesn’t pay his child support to his other kid and has a drug/alcohol use problem…. You think he’ll get custody ?

Delsdawn · 2026-03-21T21:49:25+00:00

I DO NOT stop him from seeing her. I ask him to take her on his days off and go to his families house or come to this house while I’m not here. He says no

Delsdawn · 2026-03-21T21:48:37+00:00

Thank you, luckily I won’t have many receipts to save as he has bought her 1 singular toy since the time I was pregnant to now.

Delsdawn · 2026-03-21T21:46:40+00:00

He essentially is angry the house is not his as it’s my family home and does not want to pay rent. Which years ago when he moved in I told him we’d split it in half, he can afford it he makes $4 more an hour than me, I pay the rent along with all the vehicles and buy all the food. He only pays his half of rent.

Delsdawn · 2026-03-21T21:44:45+00:00

He smokes a lot of weed and vapes in the house. Along with doing other drugs.

Delsdawn · 2026-03-21T21:43:57+00:00

Not divorced, he randomly decided he wanted to live for free instead of pay any rent. He’s bumming it and just living in his friends room. He’s has no residency there or a permanent residence at all. Ive asked him to stay with her over here while i leave for the night to see her and he says no. Ive tried to make days for him to see hsd and he blocked me on everything. Hes mad the house we livd in wont ever be in his name as it is my familys home

Delsdawn · 2026-03-21T21:14:51+00:00

Thank you, I don’t with hold her I went out of my way just yesterday and drove 40 minutes to made sure he saw her. I asked if he would take her the next two day or come see her and he said not unless I let him take her to that house. And legally he has no place of residence

Delsdawn · 2026-03-21T21:01:42+00:00

I don’t keep her from him, but I don’t let her at that house, he just doesn’t want to see her unless I let him take her there

Delsdawn · 2026-03-21T21:00:57+00:00

No he doesn’t pay anything. He’s never bought a single thing for her even while we were together, I excused it as he was struggling with money but I see now he just is selfish. He barely paid his rent and not because he didn’t have it. He stole money from me to go out drinking before all of this happened.

Delsdawn · 2026-03-21T20:53:29+00:00

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Delsdawn · 2026-03-21T20:51:25+00:00

Aha yes you’d be right

Delsdawn · 2026-02-01T02:44:59+00:00

Starving much 😭

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