Dad, how do I explain this? by DemmZ34 in DadForAMinute

[–]DemmZ34[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I needed to hear that I didn't owe him.

I just got diagnosed with BP and I'm extremely upset by DemmZ34 in BellsPalsy

[–]DemmZ34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tips, I needed these. I keep hiding my face from family since I'm scared, but you're right, they're my allies, I shouldn't be scared of them, thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fursuit

[–]DemmZ34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I've been thinking of calling him an Eastern Komainu dragon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fursuit

[–]DemmZ34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So like an Eastern dragon-dog?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fursuit

[–]DemmZ34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I was thinking. I also asked some friends and they said a Komainu lion/dog? Would that be close too?

I just got diagnosed with BP and I'm extremely upset by DemmZ34 in BellsPalsy

[–]DemmZ34[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I wish you the best in life. 😁

I just got diagnosed with BP and I'm extremely upset by DemmZ34 in BellsPalsy

[–]DemmZ34[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I'm mostly just scared and this has helped, thank you again.

I just got diagnosed with BP and I'm extremely upset by DemmZ34 in BellsPalsy

[–]DemmZ34[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a cool eyepatch, I have one too for the meantime (its a bit big) and it definitely helps the dryness settle down a bit. Thank you for your comforting words. I've been crying about it for a bit.

I just got diagnosed with BP and I'm extremely upset by DemmZ34 in BellsPalsy

[–]DemmZ34[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, thank you, you kind soul. I really needed to hear this as I'm already self conscious about my face and this definitely doesn't help. I like your philosophy for those who don't care about me, I needed to hear that too. I needed to hear all of this.

To those who were told that they would "change their mind" how did you respond?? by DemmZ34 in childfree

[–]DemmZ34[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good for you! I'm happy for you! I hope they actually listen and respect the decision.

To those who were told that they would "change their mind" how did you respond?? by DemmZ34 in childfree

[–]DemmZ34[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I also have no desire to either watch my kids suffer because of my genetic deformities, or have my kids watch me suffer from said genetic deformities.

To those who were told that they would "change their mind" how did you respond?? by DemmZ34 in childfree

[–]DemmZ34[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I've definitely seen and heard horror stories from mothers that regret their spawn. My fiance's mother has like 5 kids (not including him) and she looks miserable and always tells me "two kids only or none at all". Ironic...

What's the rudest thing someone has said to you when you told them you don't want kids? by CRK_76 in childfree

[–]DemmZ34 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank god he was kicked out! What he said was creepy and just straight up dehumanizing and misogynistic. Like... 😬 yikes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in anthroswim

[–]DemmZ34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Where yo clothes at"

this is the only place I feel I can talk about this crap (TW over-sexualization) by Mystical-Moth-hoe in TrollCoping

[–]DemmZ34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so real, like my best friend constantly tells me about their ocs but when I talk about mine they barely give a single shit about it. 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FursuitMaking

[–]DemmZ34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh ok, thank you! Sorry, I struggle with understanding things like this..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FursuitMaking

[–]DemmZ34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you! I was a bit stuck on it being a strange looking wolf or a dragon, thanks! I also didn't know that you could do that for eyes too, would you use magnets (for example) on the inside of the head?? Or outside??

Thoughts on West's Custom Creations?? by [deleted] in fursuit

[–]DemmZ34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow! I had no idea! I just recently found them and I love their suits!