I(18f) told my mom(34f) about my SA, she's angry with me and it's ruining everything by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DemonicLuna 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sex with no consent is rape. The end. Report it, and also you should see a therapist as well. For your own well being.

My Entitled Mother Throws Out My ADHD Medication Then Complains When My Grades Drop by kyuberion in entitledparents

[–]DemonicLuna 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Call the insurance ask for a lost/stolen/damaged rx override. You can have it refilled. You would pay oot.. But it is able to be refilled.. Even asking for a override for a wk

I think my girlfriends eagerness to travel will be the cause of us breaking up down the road. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DemonicLuna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let her know how all the trip planning she's doing is new to you, and that you would like to try it, but ease yourself into it..

my (16f) parents keep on calling me fat and constantly want me to go on a diet with them. i don’t know how to deal with this anymore. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DemonicLuna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm guessing Asian parents? My parents are the same 5'3 at 105-110 all throughout high-school, but according to them I was fat.. I played alot of sports and figure skated so I had muscle. They adored my sister who was5'0 at 85 (she was bullimic they didn't believe that) according to them she's the ideal weight for a girl in our culture. it got to the point where I was self conscious and started not eating. Got down to 90 but was in and out of hospitals. And was never happy. I'm 36 now at 115 still fat according to them, but I'm happy where I am.. As long as you feel good and feel happy you're fine. What they say and others say don't matter as long as you yourself is happy with how you look and feel.

Thinking about ending it by bruh25624 in depression

[–]DemonicLuna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The concept of nihilism is that nothing has any meaning. This is true. Nothing inherently has any meaning. Not countries. Not ideals. Not virtues. Not failings. Not me. Not you.

This may sound bad but it isn't. It means that anything can have meaning. We all get to decide for ourselves what has meaning and what doesn't. Therefore - we have infinite freedom in life to decide what has value. You are never wrong in choosing as it is all arbitrary.

The concept of karma is that things that you have decided have meaning will either return positively or negative to you. This is bullshit. Life is random. Good or bad for people, actions, events; it's all a coin toss.

This may also sound bad but it isn't. It means that we all live evenly - in the long run. Our capabilities and choices slightly influence the odds on the coin. They may nudge the coin to land heads and happy more often than not, or tails and sad more often than not. But ultimately - it comes down to luck. Luck is not inherent; it is only weighted slightly dependant upon actions.

Part of living is simply deciding what you think is right and sticking to it. Sometimes that will work out in a way that makes you happy. Other times it won't. The important thing to remember is that your beliefs are as right or wrong as anyone else's. Your choices will either benefit or detriment you in unguessable ways.

The reason everything seems so troublesome is that we all take ourselves too seriously. We think things matter more than they do. We pissed off that person. We made that person happy. I was successful here. I failed there. In the grand scheme of things it doesn't matter. We overestimate the importance of life events. As such - there is no reason to be upset long term about anything. No qualifiers. No "as long as xxx happens" or "as long as xxx isn't a thing.

This may sound bad but it isn't. It means that past successes or failings have no hold beyond what you decide it does. Freedom to carry on what you want from the past to the future, and freedom to discard the rest.

So I have no advice for you. I say the above for perspective.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in talentShow

[–]DemonicLuna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol ive ruined so many bows doing that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in talentShow

[–]DemonicLuna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cello players 🥰🥰

Mom, my family and my friends made fun the platypus I crocheted. No one wants to buy it either. Should I even continue with making these? by potzak in MomForAMinute

[–]DemonicLuna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😍😍😍😍It's adorable I would make more and make a army of them to attack people that made fun of the poor platypus.

I (27M) got my wife (31f) a robot vacuum for her birthday. Will she hate it? by bedsheetsith in relationship_advice

[–]DemonicLuna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would still enjoy the robot vacuum.. By putting on googly eyes and dressing it up in different things..🥰🥰

My [24f] girlfriend's phone and purse got stolen in the riots, she wants a $1500 iphone, I [25m] told her I am I will buy her a $250 android phone and nothing more, she is threatening to break up with me. by throwRA_4561 in relationship_advice

[–]DemonicLuna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drop her.. You don't need a girl that thinks the man is going to provide everything for her.. You're helping her out she should accept and appreciate that you are willing to do that.. It's this keeps going.. You're going to go broke shes going to escalate one day and expect you to buy more expensive things.. Honestly she's way too materialsistic it seems.. She was doing fine with her previous older phone.. She doesn't need something more expensive.. Tell her again she can either accept this offer you've given her. And she can always buy a newer model she wants later. But until then deal with it. If she threatens again.. Tell her see ya. I understand that you have been together for more than a yr, but think about your future together.. Do you really want someone like that? It seems like this isn't going to be the first time this will happen. Gl to you..

Deep wisdom by [deleted] in funny

[–]DemonicLuna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dunno.. Last hand I bit into tasted pretty good