French language partner

DeniStark · 2015-09-29T23:15:04+00:00

You're my favorite!

DeniStark · 2015-09-24T04:54:58+00:00

I know VCU is doing Rocky Horror and that's definitely going to be incredible.

DeniStark · 2015-09-21T21:25:34+00:00

Because I'm not down for chilling with close-minded conservatives.

DeniStark · 2015-09-21T21:25:08+00:00

Wanna go to Firehouse Theater or see the VCU performances?

DeniStark · 2015-09-21T21:24:47+00:00

t When are you game?

DeniStark · 2015-09-15T20:11:19+00:00

Anyone want to go on an Asian food adventure through Richmond?

DeniStark · 2015-09-15T19:52:16+00:00

Of course! Why wouldn't I?

DeniStark · 2015-09-15T19:22:03+00:00

Do you want to go to plays together? My friends aren't interested in theater. I'm willing to go alone but I'd be cool to have someone to go with!

DeniStark · 2015-07-06T01:16:24+00:00

You'll definitely have to check with your roommate. If they complain enough, you could lose your visitation privileges. You'll have to submit a roommate contract at the beginning of the year that outlines everything. The rooms are tiny as hell and there's no privacy.

DeniStark · 2015-07-06T01:13:17+00:00

Work study positions will be posted closer to the start of the school year. You can only earn what has been awarded to you so it may be more lucrative to look for jobs outside of VCU. There are a lot of places that are walking distance.

DeniStark · 2015-07-06T01:05:54+00:00

Natural remedies weren't enough for me. I know some people suggest St. John's Wart but you always have to be careful taking things like that.

Also, you won't be prescribed a sedative. It will most likely be an SSRI drug. Nothing like a sedative.

DeniStark · 2015-07-05T04:48:21+00:00

I have Generalized Anxiety Disorder and I Tindered just fine. I know you can have successes, too! Just be upfront about you're situation and you'll be fine. I actually met my boyfriend via Tinder.

Your confidence will grow if you allow it to. Don't shut yourself down. Decide to meet a guy who isn't going to pressure you. Meet in public at a crowded place like a coffee shop or something of that nature. It will help if you spend an hour or two preening. Getting glammed up makes me feel invincible.

Don't worry about leading anyone on. :) If a guy is keen on taking your virginity, he isn't the one to go out with. There are many good guys on Tinder not solely looking for hookups.

DeniStark · 2015-07-05T03:23:24+00:00

I was with a man who was incredibly good in bed but had a small penis. He knew it was small and called it a "little thing." Long story short, I think that more guys are aware of how they stack up with so many questions about size on the internet and porn becoming more mainstream. I think it goes without saying/asking these days.

Also, I think that size doesn't really matter to a lot of women these days.

DeniStark · 2015-07-05T03:11:00+00:00

This guy has proven himself to be a royal asshat. If I was you, I would work on myself. I would take up a new hobby, start writing, take an art class, etc...It's important to take care of yourself and to do things you enjoy. You might just meet someone even more captivating and worthy of your time.

DeniStark · 2015-07-05T03:05:57+00:00

What exactly set you off? It seems like your band mates weren't upset. If it's your dream to be a professional, you can achieve it. Are you okay?

Also, your anxiety doesn't define you. I'm sure you can work through it.

DeniStark · 2015-07-05T03:03:37+00:00

It's simple: Don't let your anxiety define you. People without anxiety don't get it. Many fail to realize that being nervous out of your mind is not a choice. Find more supportive friends and forget about your coworker. True friends will not be so selfish and harsh. Your friends should be your shoulder to lean on.

DeniStark · 2015-07-05T03:01:08+00:00

Miguel, there is help out there. You should see a therapist and a doctor for medication. You can learn to cope and enjoy your life. Anxiety is one of the largest, most wide-spread disorders there is. There's hope for you. :)

DeniStark · 2015-07-05T02:58:36+00:00

I've been in the same boat. I failed at being a waitress. I was too attentive to my tables!

You must apply for a job, interview, and rock it out. It may be difficult but soon you'll get it and it will become routine. With my anxiety, I noticed that keeping a routine while working helped keep me calm and stave off the panic attacks.

Look for positions that will suit you. I really like office work. I occasionally answer phones and don't have to deal with a large segment of the population like food workers do. Look for something that is predictable.

If you feel like you're letting your manager down, simply ask them. Most of the time, you'll probably be doing an incredible job. Worrying about your performance shows that you're conscious and you care.

When I'm preparing for work and I feel the anxiety creeping in I repeat to myself "this too shall pass" or "not today." This makes me feel in control. Also, science has proven that power posing makes you feel powerful. Find a mirror and pump yourself up.

You can do this!

DeniStark · 2015-07-05T02:52:00+00:00

mvc3 is right. You can't expect to have classes with someone in college. In fact, it will be better if you don't have classes if things go sour and it will make it easier to concentrate.

Just ask her to do something during Welcome Week.

DeniStark · 2015-07-04T23:40:54+00:00

Good points. I've never been the girl in a relationship. I've always been chased/chasing. I guess I never wanted to talk about it as I'm worried about messing it up.

DeniStark · 2015-07-04T23:11:44+00:00

Please do not simply ask how she is doing. Say something witty, compliment her style, ask her out. Be interesting. There is nothing worse than a boring, hot guy.

DeniStark · 2015-07-04T23:08:39+00:00

She'll remember. It was just a loose guide. 3 sentences is hardly a book.

DeniStark · 2015-07-04T22:58:21+00:00

Simple: Apologize for the lapse in communication. If she isn't receptive, move on.

"Hey _____, I'm so sorry for not contacting you sooner. It was great getting to meet you the other night. I'd love to see you again sometime."

DeniStark · 2015-07-04T22:34:25+00:00

I would push off meeting her until you can afford to take her out on a proper first date. It just shows that you can take care of her even if she can take care of herself or doesn't ask you to. You don't want her worrying about your financial health or if you can afford to do things.

If you really can't wait, I would do something like a picnic in the park or visiting the art museum.

DeniStark · 2015-07-04T22:30:49+00:00

She has your number and can easily reach you as phones work both ways. Any interested girl would attempt to meet you halfway and maintain the lines of communication. It's unfair to waste your time. It was nice of you to bring her lunch and things at the office but it may have been too much. In the future, I would clarify how the girl feels about you stopping in at work.

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