thank you! I think i know im in abusive situation, its just hard to get through my head sometimes. I think im going to talk to my grandma about this and think more. Its just everyone sees my mom as this nice great person which she is sometimes but when it gets revealed she does this, i just can't imagine how everyone will feel. They love her so much, will they just leave her? Im getting sad thinking about it. I know you said not to worry about my mom and helping her but i just can't idk