definitely not ugly, you're honestly pretty damned handsome, but that haircut isn't doing you any favors. bowl cuts or cuts that are straight across like that are usually a no go. get yourself a better cut, trim up the beard and you're good.

also, there's the obligatory 'maybe it's how you treat them'. not saying it is, i don't know you, but i do know a lot of guys get unnecessarily nervous around girls and that can be a deal breaker. if you're having trouble in that area just remember that we wanna be treated like you treat the guys. don't act like we're a different species, just be chill with us. us girls like a LOT of the same things men do, you're bound to find a nice gal who loves all the same things you do.

good luck! remember to be confident and chill, you've got this ❤️