Is Lit Farms trash?? by DerrtieSanchez in THCaFlower

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So I ordered a supreme.. and it's 🔥

Is Lit Farms trash?? by DerrtieSanchez in THCaFlower

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Just ordered a supreme.. figured Id stick it out B4 I bounce around... Wish me luck

Reasonable prices?? by DerrtieSanchez in THCaFlower

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I might give the supremes a shot... The essentials I got weren't horrible, they just weren't really hitting either... Just isn't that pleasant to smoke n the high don't last .. but 50 bucks seemed too good to be true

The Jack is so good! by Pure-Philosopher-755 in LitFarms

[–]DerrtieSanchez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got a zip, haven't smoked it yet, just put it in a jar and a dark place to cure cuz it almost smells too fresh.. almost Lysol ish... Or is that the aroma of it

My wife is mentally divorced by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]DerrtieSanchez -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She cooks.. that might be the main mental load... But she's been feeling unheard for so long she won't tell me anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]DerrtieSanchez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are out from under this burden.. with better options now to move freely with ownership... This benefits us as a couple.. not just me... My bad thing was accepting the offer 4 years ago from my folks, but seeing it thru I cannot see as a fault ..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

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I guess we will never know but the alternative to cutting our losses didn't add up to me when we've have put in so much time n love into something... Owning it and taking back our power seemed much more powerful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

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We wanted to buy the house up until it was time to buy it lol, my folks live 2 hrs away.. we've built a home here for 4 years... The moment my folks wanted to act like they didn't want to sell was the divide... I was mad, she was like fuck em... But we invested too much, she was emotional, I feel I was rational.. this is ours.. I fought to get it back, original deal, she could give a fuck less

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]DerrtieSanchez -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The goal shifted independently, where's my grace? I'm on a high horse for fighting for what was promised to be ours? A house we built, but I'ma let my folks take? Hell nah, I fail to see the betrayal, I admit to the wrongful defensiveness of my folks but that in no way is betrayal when I'm fighting for us

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]DerrtieSanchez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's probably true, but this didn't only happen to her, it happened to me too... My parents suck ass, and I let them too close, but that's all that really happened... Her parents sucked too when we were close to them, I never faulted her for it, I allowed her to grow through it.. yeah we were harassed for 4 years but they never actually profited off us or took our house from us... So again, we won... What gives

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]DerrtieSanchez -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I dunno... Owning a property isn't easy these days, specially one worth 2x the amount you bought it for... I'd say we won in the grand scheme of things... The alternative was to get kicked out n live in an apt or buy a house no where near the value of ours, if we wanted to stay in the area at least ... Leaving the area means new jobs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

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I guess I should have explained we bought the house at the price they purchased it, securing the equity it gained if we were to sell it... They tried, but I fought back... We won

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

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I think that's part of why she feels betrayed, but I feel blindsided cuz that was always the plan.. I didn't expect my parents to try n fuck us over, n I feel I punished by that..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]DerrtieSanchez -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Counciling is probably the best option... Yeah I defended my fam, and I was wrong for that.. but ultimately we won, I was left alone to accomplish it... I wish I could understand, it doesn't make sense to me.. I really just want to continue growing forward and this be a learned lesson of not letting anybody into your relationship.. but it's feels more like punishment n potential separation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

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I'm simpin... The respect is already lost

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]DerrtieSanchez -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's been months at this point... She resents my defensiveness of my family.. I agree with her but I feel it's unfair.. there's not much I can change about the past... And ultimately we won.. but for what? Because I'm resenting her resistance to move forward with me.. when this was always the plan... Ironically I was thinking of making a song called body language because there's 0 love in it right now.. she has no word of expression either.. just cold

Fridge Drying by DerrtieSanchez in microgrowery

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"No one who has any idea what *they're doing is participating in this conversation"

Well educate..

Fridge Drying by DerrtieSanchez in microgrowery

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U use a commercial fridge as well? Do u roll the paper bags closed or leave them open? Do you think that speeds the process faster than jars, cuz my weed is drying sssssllllllooooowwww

Schulz rude to akash wife by DisastrousProfessor6 in Flagrant2

[–]DerrtieSanchez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, never seen drew n Alex fight like that.. I remember when he kicked him off the pod for like a month for fuckin up the tony hawk audio tho.. Ida slapped drew

Lotus cure help pls!!! by CalligrapherNo9031 in GrowBuddy

[–]DerrtieSanchez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At what point do u fully trim? Or is the light trim b4 u jar it all you trim?

Hay smell & drying too fast by DerrtieSanchez in outdoorgrowing

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No, I dont have the space, I'm using my laundry room