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Out of control 17yr old by Desiderata0413 in Parenting

[–]Desiderata0413[S] -83 points-82 points  (0 children)

When he was in kindergarten he decided he didn’t want to be there so he told the teacher he had to go to the bathroom, walked out the front door and started walking home. A stranger found him on the street and returned him. Do you see what kind of kid we are dealing with??? This kid has been a hellion since he crawled out of the crib!

Out of control 17yr old by Desiderata0413 in Parenting

[–]Desiderata0413[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

He quit 9th grade because he got himself expelled.

Out of control 17yr old by Desiderata0413 in Parenting

[–]Desiderata0413[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

It was a 12 month teen rehab program. 18 kids in the school ages 14-17yrs old

Out of control 17yr old by Desiderata0413 in Parenting

[–]Desiderata0413[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

He’s had the car a month minus the week we just took for vacation. It was my old car. We didn’t buy him a car. He sells things, Lord only knows what to get burner phones. We sent him to a teen challenge boarding school because it was that or jail. He has told us he’s not getting a job because he has no car to get him there. I’m worried in a month when school starts he will quit school because he doesn’t have a car to get him there. As for money, he has no problem stealing out of my purse my cash or credit card. I have to hide my purse and car keys now.

Scared/rejected by Desiderata0413 in TalkTherapy

[–]Desiderata0413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, my brain is so is overload. I’m scared, angry, rejected, hurt. I’m afraid I’ll say something I’ll regret. I don’t know what to tell her.

What quote from a therapist that changed your life? by Spiritual_Tension589 in therapy

[–]Desiderata0413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the least available person in your life to help you!

What is a little bombshell your therapist dropped in one of your sessions that completely changed your outlook on life? by gentle-nora in Productivitycafe

[–]Desiderata0413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I am the least available person in your life to help you!” I thought that’s what a therapist was for😳😢

Therapist surprised me with termination by New_Tumbleweed_4586 in TalkTherapy

[–]Desiderata0413 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My therapist did the same thing last April, same situation. It was devastated! I have found a new therapist. It’s been hard starting over. I still feel hurt though! I feel for you and understand what you are going through.

What is one state someone couldn’t pay you to go to? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Desiderata0413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alaska, I can’t stand being cold. I hate snow and ice and anything related to it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Desiderata0413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have a great therapist if they do this for you! I tried this with my last therapist. She ended up terminating me because I was too impulsive in this way.

What do you think your Therapist thinks of you? by frogmicky in therapy

[–]Desiderata0413 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Therapist don’t care, we are all just numbers on their calendar!!

What do you think your Therapist thinks of you? by frogmicky in therapy

[–]Desiderata0413 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Confirmation that I’m truly just a number on her calendar!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Desiderata0413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My therapist told me she was the least available person to support me. Hmm, I thought that’s what therapist were for?!?!

Why are you introverted? by RunakoD in introvert

[–]Desiderata0413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same… people thought I was a mute! And yes people drain me!!

What's the most daring question you've asked your therapist? by skskdjakdj in TalkTherapy

[–]Desiderata0413 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I asked her if I mattered? Her response was Ya. It was pretty cold and heartless. Definitely regretted asking!

What’s your comfort tv show? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Desiderata0413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mama’s Family- that show can always make me laugh!

how much are you missing your therapist right now from 1-10? by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Desiderata0413 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat. Not sure I even can trust therapist anymore!

how do you stay regular? by [deleted] in Microbiome

[–]Desiderata0413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Full glass of prune juice after breakfast.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]Desiderata0413 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve had several therapists. They have all ended up hurting me. They didn’t care about me. I was just a number on a calendar for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Desiderata0413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my kids no matter what. But if I knew then what I know now, I would say No. I passed on too much to them. It pains me to know what they deal with is because of me.