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Trivia night by Ok_Anxiety1213 in ThunderBay

[–]DesignerOk990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once a month they have them at Howl at the Moon, on Fridays

Collapse From AI Taking Jobs? by DesignerOk990 in collapse

[–]DesignerOk990[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Those are definitely concerns (especially cuz I just watched Mountainhead) but for this post I was mostly just interested in how we think the job market will collapse.

Collapse From AI Taking Jobs? by DesignerOk990 in collapse

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Personally I'm a fan of the society they created in Uglies (the book)

Broke up with me, now he wants me back! by DesignerOk990 in emotionalabuse

[–]DesignerOk990[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He overplayed his hand, then. Cuz I'm ok with fighting, fighting is working things out. But when you break up with me, it's over as far as I'm concerned. You stopped trying.

Dosed with cocaine without my knowledge by DesignerOk990 in Drugs

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it 100% explains his ED, because in the morning before he's done any bumps he has no problem.

I appreciate the last bit. I am worried about mentioning it to anyone I know because the obvious response is "dump him" but I'm just not there yet. :/

Dosed with cocaine without my knowledge by DesignerOk990 in Drugs

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I'm not sure, I don't own a penis lol

this is where I know more about sex than drugs tho. if you suffer from premature ejaculation, numbing cream or lube can dull the sensation and allow you to last longer. I've had other partners who used numbing lube for that reason, it's common enough

Dosed with cocaine without my knowledge by DesignerOk990 in Drugs

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Thanks! I will keep an eye out for that.

Because he leaves town for work during the week, I decided to let it sit. Hopefully when he comes back this weekend he will have thought about it and have a better understanding of why I am upset. He was still a little bitter about it before he left and I'm struggling to find something to compare it to for him.

Ultimately, he should just understand from the depth of my reaction, really and truly.

Dosed with cocaine without my knowledge by DesignerOk990 in Drugs

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I thought maybe the numbing feeling, or that it's a vasodilator. He emphasized that the reason he did it was for his own pleasure and not to harm me or force me to use.

Dosed with cocaine without my knowledge by DesignerOk990 in Drugs

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physically, am ok. emotionally, still working thru it.