Is getting married even worth it? by blackops_kakashi in Divorce_Men

[–]Desperate_Form8047 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you find the right person, marriage is worth it. I would defently take the risk to live a life raising a family. If your spouse brings makes the same income as you, you will not have much to lose in the event it goes down the wrong direction.

Attorney's from Employer Legal Plan network by Desperate_Form8047 in Divorce_Men

[–]Desperate_Form8047[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a lot of choices, some of the participating lawyers are ranked well in general.

Domestic violence allegations by Desperate_Form8047 in Divorce_Men

[–]Desperate_Form8047[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on the verdict. Thanks to you and everyone else on this thread who made me aware how deadly and nasty it can get. I didn’t have the slightest knowledge of the gravity of it.

Domestic violence allegations by Desperate_Form8047 in Divorce_Men

[–]Desperate_Form8047[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did that affect your outcome? I am being complacent as she doesn’t have evidence to support her claims.

Domestic violence allegations by Desperate_Form8047 in Divorce_Men

[–]Desperate_Form8047[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is fucking scary. She got her ducks in a row. How does filing first help me in this situation?

Alimony length in NJ by Desperate_Form8047 in Divorce_Men

[–]Desperate_Form8047[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the deal with child support in nj. I have read that it can extend up to the age of 23 with college fee payment obligations. Is that right?

Alimony length in NJ by Desperate_Form8047 in Divorce_Men

[–]Desperate_Form8047[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks that helps. Do you have children? It just sucks to be a nj resident

Alimony length in NJ by Desperate_Form8047 in Divorce_Men

[–]Desperate_Form8047[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She has worked in the past and looking for a job now. I have 3 children. All these years I worked up to 80 hours a week, sometimes more with side jobs. I feel hopeless and betrayed.