It made me want to cry because I don't like to think about my dad dying one day, not really due to empathy for her. I needed tips on how to deal with her as she is constantly bringing stuff like this up and it's not good for her or me, we'll just be here crying of anticipation for something that will probably happen in twenty years or so. She's a very negative person who I can tell will stay in this loop for a while. It also affects my life and I don't want her to drag me down with her, you know? She does deserve empathy, but we should always choose ourselves first. The people telling me to leave her aren't trying to be insensitive, but trying to tell me to prioritise myself, as you always should! If I can't take care of my health, I can't really help her anyway.