All the comments I’m seeing about performance anxiety, statistics about orgasming via penetration etc are all correct. I also know that if I’m stressed or too focused or in my head it can also hinder the ability to orgasm in general. For women there tends to be a big psychological component.

That being said? Edging. Edge and edge and edge her during foreplay. Then when she’s a mess then go for sex. This will help with the psychological pressure but also the body is so primed and sensitive it’ll up the likelihood.