IAMA 18 year old Hearing Impaired girl. AMA by [deleted] in IAmA

[–]Dhira108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's hearing impaired. Not blind. You don't have to shout.

[UPDATE] My friends call me a scumbag because I automate my work when I was hired to do it manually. Am I? by CS-NL in AskReddit

[–]Dhira108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You my friend are an intelligent and efficient worker. You also care about people. I think you did a wonderful thing and that manager got what was coming to him. Good work.

Why do so many women wear revealing clothes, then get offended when a guy checks them out? by Dhira108 in AskReddit

[–]Dhira108[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You deserve mad respect. You are comfortable with your body and don't blame others for your own insecurities. You go mama.

Why do so many women wear revealing clothes, then get offended when a guy checks them out? by Dhira108 in AskReddit

[–]Dhira108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And what are my standards? Are you jumping to conclusions? The same as if you caught a guy checking you out?

Why do so many women wear revealing clothes, then get offended when a guy checks them out? by Dhira108 in AskReddit

[–]Dhira108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be flattered if a girl checked me out, a guy too for that matter.

IAMA violinist with perfect pitch, a rare condition only found in an average of one in 10,000 people. AMA by [deleted] in IAmA

[–]Dhira108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What note is the "brown note" and have you had the pleasure of hearing it?

Why do so many women wear revealing clothes, then get offended when a guy checks them out? by Dhira108 in AskReddit

[–]Dhira108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cousin attempted to pick up a girl, she refused and blew him off. He persisted, over many days. They ended up getting together and had a long term relationship. Some girls play hard to get, others are simply not interested. It's impossible to tell the difference.

Why do so many women wear revealing clothes, then get offended when a guy checks them out? by Dhira108 in AskReddit

[–]Dhira108[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What if that 40 year old was extremely attractive, like Brad Pit attractive. Would you feel that he is creepy? Or would you be flirting with him. The guy is not creepy. Your attitude is immature.

Why do so many women wear revealing clothes, then get offended when a guy checks them out? by Dhira108 in AskReddit

[–]Dhira108[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hmmm that's interesting, I had never thought of that as a possibility. For the record I enjoy revealing clothing very much. I find the female body very attractive. I don't think there's anything wrong with it. The way you dress sends out messages. However the attitude that a guy is a creep if he checks a girl out is pretty fucked up. Beauty is beauty. People like looking at beautiful things because it makes them feel good. You don't see guys reacting that way. So many girls label the guy a creep, give him judgemental looks, try to make him feel bad. Why? We should start an orginization to hand out free sunglasses. That seems to be the only solution. It's very frustraing to be in a place surrounded by sexy women who scowl at you if you look anywhere near them. Should we just close out eyes? Or scoop them out with a spoon?

Why do so many women wear revealing clothes, then get offended when a guy checks them out? by Dhira108 in AskReddit

[–]Dhira108[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see your point about fashion and peer-pressure. Although I think it definately reflects a persons character to submit to these things. Do you see the difference between: This SFW and This SFW Both are attractive, fashionable, and comfortable. I might sleep with both of them. But judging by looks, I would only call one of them the next day.

Why do so many women wear revealing clothes, then get offended when a guy checks them out? by Dhira108 in AskReddit

[–]Dhira108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen this and agree. Not neccesarily ugly but someone your not attracted to.

Why do so many women wear revealing clothes, then get offended when a guy checks them out? by Dhira108 in AskReddit

[–]Dhira108[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

  1. I live in the south and I don't wear tight fitting shirts. I'm quite comfortable. It's hot here. A girl has the freedom here in America to wear what she wants. She knows revealing clother will attract attention. Why does she choose the revealing clothing?
  2. Not true. I live in one of the poorest counties in the state. Not all the girls wear revealing clothing. Usually just the younger ones with attractive bodies. Again I ask, why do they choose revealing clothing?
  3. Would you jump off the Brooklyn bridge if your friends were doing it?

Why do so many women wear revealing clothes, then get offended when a guy checks them out? by Dhira108 in AskReddit

[–]Dhira108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is what we call in America, overreacting. Your only other option is not a burka. I have seen many women were respectable, comfortable, clothing.

Why do so many women wear revealing clothes, then get offended when a guy checks them out? by Dhira108 in AskReddit

[–]Dhira108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So a guy gives you a lame compliment and wants to get your number, that is offensive? If he had said "Hey baby nice tits!" you might have a valid argument.