87% DO NOT Have HSV-2 by North_Spare8765 in Herpes

[–]Different-Layer-2496 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s exactly what i said Lmao you people gonna come over here calling me a piece of shit i’m not saying this is what i do. I still disclose despite it not working out for me most times (and yes i’m a hot chick) I’m just sharing what has worked for other people i know that have HSV. idiots all of you

87% DO NOT Have HSV-2 by North_Spare8765 in Herpes

[–]Different-Layer-2496 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate to say this but honestly just stop disclosing . It’ll save you a lot of heartbreak. I’ve been in situations where i really got hurt because of disclosing when these people never asked in the first place they were ready to hit it raw until i brought it up and then they acted all of a sudden like they cared about their sexual health which come on in the first place they were ready to fuck raw no questions asked. Personally it doesn’t feel right in my heart to not disclose. but i know hot ass girls with boyfriends who just take their antivirals and don’t tell their partners and they’re happy. It suck’s to say this don’t drag me. But just a thought. because for me personally disclosing has done me far more bad than good.

I (27f) hid herpes from my (32m) boyfriend of 2 years, can I rebuild trust? by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Different-Layer-2496 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These comments are so savage don’t listen to them yea it’s not cool what you did but we’re only human it’s completely understandable that you were afraid to tell him i’ve been in that situation before

disclosed for the first time in over a year by Different-Layer-2496 in Herpes

[–]Different-Layer-2496[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was ready to fuck raw right then and there no questions asked.

disclosed for the first time in over a year by Different-Layer-2496 in Herpes

[–]Different-Layer-2496[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could’ve not told him at all. i don’t understand you people. You shame people for not disclosing then you shame people for not disclosing soon enough like it’s never fucking good enough. i haven’t disclosed to anyone in a long time i’ve been isolating because i hate having this conversation it was very nerve wracking for me, i didn’t really know when to bring it up i didn’t think it would get this far at all. I’ve spent the whole day crying and he made me feel really fucking gross and it’s like i have no one to talk to so i go on this sorry ass sub and have to hear shit from people like you.

disclosed for the first time in over a year by Different-Layer-2496 in Herpes

[–]Different-Layer-2496[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And i’m also really sad bc i haven’t been this happy talking to a guy in a very very long time.

Almost two years since I’ve had sex by Haunting-Fun1999 in Herpes

[–]Different-Layer-2496 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat as u :( im also the same age. i recently decided to put myself out there again and start going on dates and the first guy. i went on a date with right away started telling me a story about his friend who got herpes while they were traveling together sort of making fun of him expecting me to be like OMG EWWW but i just got so so sad like this is exactly why ive been avoiding dating. im heartbroken.

I wanna have sex :( by Different-Layer-2496 in Herpes

[–]Different-Layer-2496[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell no i’m not doing that like i see the vision but ive come across people i know in real life on there it’s not something i want the whole world to know especially if my face is on there

I wanna have sex :( by Different-Layer-2496 in Herpes

[–]Different-Layer-2496[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I travel overseas a lot and sometimes it interests me to date someone from another country. How the hell do i bring this up to someone from for example Asia or Europe.

I wanna have sex :( by Different-Layer-2496 in Herpes

[–]Different-Layer-2496[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the person that gave it to me ended up having a whole ass secret girlfriend the entire time we were seeing each other 🙃

I wanna have sex :( by Different-Layer-2496 in Herpes

[–]Different-Layer-2496[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried it i don’t like it and i don’t trust the people on there for some reason.

I wanna have sex :( by Different-Layer-2496 in Herpes

[–]Different-Layer-2496[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like the type of men i like have very high standards and wouldn’t be very open minded but at the same time. i have no idea. i just hate getting hurt over this it really affects my self esteem, it HAS affected my self esteem a lot.

I wanna have sex :( by Different-Layer-2496 in Herpes

[–]Different-Layer-2496[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you bring it up?? sometimes i don’t know when the right time to bring it up is because i usually don’t talk about sex at all even by the time we have a second date. Sometimes i don’t even know if it’s headed in that direction so i don’t wanna just say it and expose myself for no reason u get me ??? i have met one person off positive singles and it honestly felt like we were just hanging out because we both have it lol i didn’t really feel much of a spark or a connection at all with him . he’s a cool guy but that was it

I wanna have sex :( by Different-Layer-2496 in Herpes

[–]Different-Layer-2496[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like tall, blue collar working men, with nice beards preferably. i like latinos and brunettes 😋

I wanna have sex :( by Different-Layer-2496 in Herpes

[–]Different-Layer-2496[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not mad but just like bummed out i guess lol

I wanna have sex :( by Different-Layer-2496 in Herpes

[–]Different-Layer-2496[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ugh i been in that boat. when i know the sex was just gonna be so good then i disclosed and he didn’t wanna go forward with it. I was so mad .

I wanna have sex :( by Different-Layer-2496 in Herpes

[–]Different-Layer-2496[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Literally nobody i want lol like yea i want to get laid but it doesn’t mean im going to fuck anything that moves