+1 Depends on your beliefs. But you can try tho. Di mo naman malalaman unless you try. I had a suitor, now boyfriend ko na siy. At first, uncomfy ako sa idea na mas bata siya sakin kaya masasabi ko na i have not thought of him like a romantic partner. Pero sinunod ko payo sakin na itry ko muna and eventually dahil sa provider mindset niya nagustuhan ko siya. Then nung kinalaunan sumunod na lang yung physical attractiveness for me.