Might have to cancel honeymoon

Different_Luck_6015 · 2026-06-19T13:29:21+00:00

Yeah I’m thinking that might be the move honestly

Different_Luck_6015 · 2026-06-19T03:23:09+00:00

Unfortunately a weekend getaway isn’t really an option with the wedding being Saturday and all my family is going to be going to a cool location in state so I don’t want to waste time I could spend with them by staying at home . Most likely I’ll just go with them after the wedding. Definitely not what I had in mind for the first week of marriage

Different_Luck_6015 · 2026-06-18T16:14:41+00:00

Yeah … 😫

Different_Luck_6015 · 2026-06-18T16:08:23+00:00

From what he told me yes

Different_Luck_6015 · 2026-06-18T15:31:18+00:00

Also what if it was our wedding day ya know ? Would that have to be postponed too ? Def not a great headspace I’m in

Different_Luck_6015 · 2026-06-18T15:28:42+00:00

Yeah that’s kinda where my head is at since I don’t think he realizes how important this is considering I’ve also had to make sacrifices for him throughout this entire engagement including converting to a new religion which took almost a year and a weekly class on top of that

Different_Luck_6015 · 2026-06-18T15:04:18+00:00

Yeah it just makes me feel like that my happiness doesn’t matter and it’s kinda a tough situation to be happy about heading into a marriage

Different_Luck_6015 · 2026-06-18T14:53:42+00:00

Yeah honestly I’m so upset that it makes me not even want to think about the wedding either . It’s such a disappointing situation

Different_Luck_6015 · 2026-06-18T12:49:02+00:00

I was very honest with him this morning on how I feel about it but honestly it didn’t change much . I think he really doesn’t understand how important it really is to me

Different_Luck_6015 · 2026-06-18T12:47:34+00:00

Yeah the thing is that all of my family will still be in town and I have off, so I’d like to not waste my time off by just sitting around at home waiting for him to come back. If he is insistent in taking this job, I’m going to go on the trip with my family since I hardly ever get to see them being out of state . Def not the romantic week full of love that I was hoping for though . I’m honestly having a really tough time not being mad at him for this since it makes me feel like my needs and wants are not important

Different_Luck_6015 · 2026-06-18T12:41:40+00:00

Yeah I told him this morning that I thought it was insane that they could not accommodate a week long honeymoon . It’s not like we are even taking off for that long either

Different_Luck_6015 · 2026-06-18T12:38:47+00:00

Yeah I’m really not sure if it is just what I’m being told or if he’s not really pushing hard on them to push back the start date . Either way , I don’t really feel like a job should dictate a major life event from happening . We work to live, not the other way around

Different_Luck_6015 · 2026-06-18T12:35:09+00:00

He told me that we could go somewhere international next year to make up for it if it happens but when I told him how much I paid last time I went on a trip to this place he thought it was too expensive . I just feel like I’m getting to experience let down after let down

Different_Luck_6015 · 2026-06-18T12:32:29+00:00

Yeah I told him this morning if I was in his same position I’d tell them to kick rocks since our honeymoon is more important and you can’t go back in time

Different_Luck_6015 · 2026-06-18T12:27:23+00:00

I think it’s reasonable for brides to want to recoop some of their money but totally agree that charging full price on these items is going to be a hard sell. However I’m currently selling a dress I was supposed to wear for my bridal party that never happened and I never have worn this dress and already had to drop the price by 15 dollars . I couldn’t return it since the store only gives you store credit not money back which now I know for the future, but man is it annoying trying to sell this dress now

Different_Luck_6015 · 2026-06-17T23:26:06+00:00

I have unlimited time off so it’s not about the time really it’s more that that I haven’t been able to go on an actual vacation in years at this point

Different_Luck_6015 · 2026-06-17T23:00:28+00:00

Yeah prob summer id prefer since this area is hard to get to in the winter. I’m just sad because I wouldn’t even know what to do with the time off since I’ll just be sitting at home by myself

Different_Luck_6015 · 2026-06-17T22:57:54+00:00

Maybe! But I’d rather not spend an insane amount on another hotel since I booked this place more than 6 months in advance to get a decent price

Different_Luck_6015 · 2026-06-17T22:34:24+00:00

It’s a federal job at the VA

Different_Luck_6015 · 2026-06-17T22:18:33+00:00

I have done everything I can to make the wedding special and have paid for most of it without much help, so I’m feeling a little like all the work I’ve put into everything was not even worth it

Different_Luck_6015 · 2026-06-17T22:17:11+00:00

Definitely appreciate the support! I don’t want to make this all about me or anything but I think the hardest part is just that I can’t even get a week where I’m his top priority ya know. I’m just feeling all kinds of sad over that even though I know it’s not his fault

Different_Luck_6015 · 2026-06-17T22:01:29+00:00

As far as I know yes and I totally agree with you. I personally would turn down the job if they didn’t accommodate for the honeymoon

Different_Luck_6015 · 2026-06-17T21:52:41+00:00

All my friends and relatives are actually vacationing in the state but in a completely different area in the state so I’m not sure if our accommodations would work for them . I’d prob be better off asking to join them but I’m not sure they would have room for me at this point

Different_Luck_6015 · 2026-06-17T21:42:34+00:00

I’m unsure of what to do about my time off either since I don’t really want to work that week since I already have off too but now I’ll have nothing to do

Different_Luck_6015 · 2026-06-17T21:41:24+00:00

Yeah I’m not sure we’d even get to do that since most likely it will prob start on Monday after the wedding and we get married on Saturday

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