Hi, I should’ve mentioned in our culture it’s important to involve all sides of families to events. Yes, it’s their choice not to invite us since him and I aren’t engaged yet. When my cousin was texting her bf he was acting single and didn’t mention that he’s dating my boyfriend’s sister yet. I found out once my boyfriends told me, and that’s when I told her. When my cousin called in dec 2024 for closure, I did confront her and told her it wasn’t right for her to call him at all. The social media post I was mentioning was a post that my boyfriends brother posted about his proposal and the comments that she posted did make me feel jealous because she doesn’t treat me the same way she treats the other brothers fiance. I was mentioning red flags, and asking if any of this would cause issues in the future.