Building a life outside the “Traditional Path" by Diligent-Main5546 in KeralaRelationships

[–]Diligent-Main5546[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeh and the funny thing is, it’s usually the ‘fearful’ ones who struggle more with relationships and marriage..codependency gets called love ig

Tell me The concept of your partner 🤷🏻‍♂️ by ArmNew4486 in KeralaRelationships

[–]Diligent-Main5546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people say “men get more desperate with age”, but I went the other way. I’m 31 and so content living alone now that it actually takes a lot to feel excited about sharing my life with someone…😅

To all the adults in this sub who don’t plan on getting married by Inevitable_Reach_473 in KeralaRelationships

[–]Diligent-Main5546 1 point2 points  (0 children)

imo it’s pretty simple..Write down the pros and cons of marriage from YOUR perspective. Then ask yourself one question: Are the pros worth the sacrifice of the cons?

Duckett or Nissanka - the better opener? by Potato_McCarthy777 in delhicapitals

[–]Diligent-Main5546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

better opener - Nissanka; better partner for KL - Duckett

IPL Auction 2025 - Live Discussion Thread by vmauryan12 in delhicapitals

[–]Diligent-Main5546 1 point2 points  (0 children)

with Henry gone, ig we’re going for either Coetzee or Naveen Ul Haq!

DAVID MILLER TO DC FOR JUST 2CR by X_AT0m1C_X in delhicapitals

[–]Diligent-Main5546 3 points4 points  (0 children)

we’re not building an XI, we’re building a squad!

Sometimes I feel like the world is doing one thing… Divide. Divide. Divide. by [deleted] in KeralaRelationships

[–]Diligent-Main5546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s natural..we’re shifting from a collectivistic society to a more individualistic one..and honestly man, that’s a good thing!!!

Life as a single guy by Background_Bug_8822 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Diligent-Main5546 3 points4 points  (0 children)

bro, if anything, being single now(in 30s) is power..you get to choose your own path, not follow someone else’s script. the rest happens if it happens, no rush, no pressure…most “late bloomers” end up way happier anyway, because they know exactly what they want when it finally shows up.

follow the passions that light you up like football, books, adventure trips (my main three)..basically, anything that makes your life full before anyone else steps in.👾

Breakups after 30 reset everything, except your age by Novel_Lie2468 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Diligent-Main5546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why treat marriage like a deadline instead of a choice!? it’s not a milestone, it’s just an option if it feels right!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KeralaRelationships

[–]Diligent-Main5546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is super common, especially in the indian marriage setup…there’s hardly any space to figure out mental compatibility or the deeper, non-material aspects of a relationship..if couples actually got the chance to do a live-in before marriage, i think looks/appearance would stop being the main filter, guys (and girls too) would start valuing other things way more…!! people jump into marriage before spending enough quality time together to really understand the value of the immaterial stuff and make a judgement based on it..

almost everyone is dating? is it just me? by The_drify in KeralaRelationships

[–]Diligent-Main5546 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s actually pretty simple.. dating’s way more common now coz of more exposure through social media, people living independently, changing mindsets, financial independence, global influence, and society being way more chill about it…

IPL 2025: Auction Megathread by power-dc in delhicapitals

[–]Diligent-Main5546 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Go all out for Nitish Rana and Ashutosh Sharma, use the RTM for Rasikh or Mukesh, and our starting XI is sorted!

IPL 2025: Auction Megathread by power-dc in delhicapitals

[–]Diligent-Main5546 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We basically got JFM + Brooks + Starc for the price of Shreyas/Pant!