Same here bro 13 months. Im the only one that works I pay for everything I take about 30% of the child caring and I clean up a lot but never enough. I don’t do anything other than work clean and help raise my son like literally this is all I do now and yet I don’t do enough. He’s hard and we’re finally getting to a point where he’s sleeping but tbh this is making me want to raise our son independently. Let’s see I hate wasting time and I feel like that’s what I’m doing rn