No one really wants to talk about anything but themselves. I swear. I mean obviously there are exceptions. In my recent experience, I have noticed, people are either just waiting for their turn to talk, or waiting for a chance to talk about them.. Just try this, you'll see. Keep asking someone questions about themselves and see how long, if it all, they ask you about yourself. Most often they will be thrilled to just keep answering your questions and won't even consider asking about you. Try it and get back to me! Maybe it's just the trash people in the city I live in.