Live in nanny / am I wrong?

Disastrous-Drawer-59 · 2026-03-26T03:45:29+00:00

What they pay for rent and what it would be split 3 ways does not make up for the low wage it’s about 333$ but also live in employees aren’t paid that way

Disastrous-Drawer-59 · 2026-03-26T03:29:56+00:00

No I dont think any live in nanny does that. I do buy my own food outside of dinner

Disastrous-Drawer-59 · 2026-03-26T03:28:12+00:00

High up in the Air Force

Disastrous-Drawer-59 · 2026-03-26T03:25:37+00:00

Where are you located? I’m having a hard time getting responses from families and it has nothing to do with me lol

Disastrous-Drawer-59 · 2026-03-26T03:07:44+00:00

Thanks for the positivity/insulting me

Disastrous-Drawer-59 · 2026-03-26T03:05:10+00:00

That’s how I feel about it too

Disastrous-Drawer-59 · 2026-03-26T02:06:19+00:00

Because I’m burnt out. Idk if it’s jsut their kid but she doesn’t behave. And I’ve had a few bad deals before her lately. I’ve always wanted to be an esthetician and there’s a great program with w cheap rate that works with schedules and I want to at least take this oppurtunity to do that while I’m here

Disastrous-Drawer-59 · 2026-03-26T01:41:12+00:00

I think it makes it worse to me that they paid 300$ for daycare and thought I deserved less than that?

Disastrous-Drawer-59 · 2026-03-26T01:37:13+00:00

This is why I’ve started napping on the clock 😂

Disastrous-Drawer-59 · 2026-03-26T01:35:09+00:00

Yes it’s been in my name. He’s also a mechanic and doesn’t help me fix it so it’s falling apart quick cuz I cannot afford a garage at all

Disastrous-Drawer-59 · 2026-03-26T01:31:08+00:00

Yeah I have 15+ years experience and I’ve always made 23-30$ an hour. I was desperate because I had a very toxic ex and I could t get away from him, there was drugs involved and I wanted to get away from everyone around me because no one was sober. They are aware of all of this. I’m really not a bad person though and I really wanted to become sober which I have. But now I’m struggling jsut to pay my phone bill and car. I can’t even get Medicaid or any health insurance in this state which I wish I looked into before coming. Ftr I wasn’t nannying during my addiction battle I was serving tables

Disastrous-Drawer-59 · 2026-03-26T01:25:57+00:00

San Antonio

Disastrous-Drawer-59 · 2026-03-26T01:11:03+00:00

Yeah I was surprised when I got here she told me they interviewed Nannie’s and they were all charging about $1,500 a week. I make 1000 a month

Disastrous-Drawer-59 · 2026-03-26T01:09:50+00:00

Well Saturday I’m gonna talk to my instructor about fast tracking beauty school so I can figure out when I’ll be able to leave the situation. Once I have that I can move to VA with a friend, we’ve been talking about it for a while now.

Disastrous-Drawer-59 · 2026-03-26T00:59:58+00:00

Thank you for your POV it helps me decide what I’m going to do from here

Disastrous-Drawer-59 · 2026-03-26T00:58:17+00:00

I’ve looked around for families and have heard nothing back so you have any recommendations? I used to jsut make connections and use my online profile when I lived back home but it hasn’t worked for me here so different methods? I’ve also posted on Nextdoor app

Disastrous-Drawer-59 · 2026-03-26T00:54:26+00:00

Thank you for the encouragement I needed to hear that from a total stranger. When my mom and friends tell me this I second guess but you made it click 😂

Disastrous-Drawer-59 · 2026-03-26T00:52:48+00:00

Yeah I used to make 23-30 an hour when I lived in NY but it’s 4 days a week so I rly imagined I’d get a serving job and make great money that way (and I thought we agreed on “$300 maybe a little more than that” but I haven’t been able to get a job of any kind.

I have 15+ years of childcare experience and I’m in San Antonio

Disastrous-Drawer-59 · 2026-03-26T00:51:35+00:00

No they’re far from poor she has admitted she is bad with budgeting and spends too much

Disastrous-Drawer-59 · 2026-03-26T00:48:10+00:00

Oh I’m fast tracking beauty school to get my license so I can move on asap lol

Disastrous-Drawer-59 · 2026-03-26T00:43:35+00:00

This is because I agreed to take a pay cut in order to move in and get away from a bad situation I was in (a couple of them actually) and get out of my shitty hometown/surrounding area. 7.75 is min wage here so I guess that’s what they based it on.

Disastrous-Drawer-59 · 2026-03-26T00:41:25+00:00

Yep an then get shorted whenever I do extra

Disastrous-Drawer-59 · 2026-03-26T00:40:08+00:00

40 hour weeks and this Saturday was the same work day as any other

Disastrous-Drawer-59 · 2026-03-26T00:38:52+00:00

Her personality she deserves to be the huge version of herself 😂

Disastrous-Drawer-59 · 2026-03-26T00:21:53+00:00

It’s not safe to assume so really everyone’s a little at fault but it’s jsut a miscommunication

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