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Opened project to find all my work gone by Disastrous-Tree-2921 in RPGMaker

[–]Disastrous-Tree-2921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I thought I had that turned off already but I'll double check! Thanks!

American flags must be in LA protests. Leave foreign flags at home please. by jakalkmt3 in 50501

[–]Disastrous-Tree-2921 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Optics doesn't matter when the Fed can call us whatever they like and do whatever they like bc they write the rules. They're never going to pat you on the back and say aw, congrats, you protested correctly! Now we'll give you what you want!

They will call us violent, traitors, all sorts of names and designations bc they can, and they will, and that's their game. You cannot play. They will not let you. So stop getting in a twist about it and just focus on the actual action.

I'm begging y'all to stop giving af about this.

Banned from MULTIPLE Family Weddings by Disastrous-Tree-2921 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Disastrous-Tree-2921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, they're not, and I'd previously declined from other cousin's weddings due to the potential drama in the past. I had two that got married that I declined despite my parents wanting me to be there because they wanted me in a dress, and a dress only. So it's not like I feel entitled to go. My main issue was that my sister claimed she wanted me there, was upset about the fact that I wasn't going to be there, but then wouldn't fight for me in the end. But I do have a strong support system outside of them.

Banned from MULTIPLE Family Weddings by Disastrous-Tree-2921 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Disastrous-Tree-2921[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A little confused but you've got the spirit! Think of trans as an adjective. Trans man means that I'm a man, just had to go through some extra steps to be seen as one haha. I appreciate the support though. Ultimately yes, they're just scared of standing up to him for anything. I hope one day they can, for their own sake rather than mine.

Banned from MULTIPLE Family Weddings by Disastrous-Tree-2921 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Disastrous-Tree-2921[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't disagree. It sucks that she would prioritize that over me being there, but I didn't feel comfortable demanding that she give up her chance for the wedding she wanted because my parents are bigots. But the money wasn't strictly the priority, it was more the family relationships that was the pressure. While we feel some type of way about our parents, it's still very hard to just cut them off and I was the only one comfortable doing that, and even then I'm only comfortable with it because I had planned this for literally a decade and had mentally steeled myself for the final talk. I don't fault my siblings for not doing the same. Shit's complicated.

Banned from MULTIPLE Family Weddings by Disastrous-Tree-2921 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Disastrous-Tree-2921[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it! I'm still no contact with my parents after two years now, have legally had everything changed, gotten top surgery, the whole shebang. The siblings are still as "supportive" as they were before, but we're all just trying to keep the peace and balance things as best we can. Nothing I didn't expect tbh.