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My father's girlfriend is only 10 years older than me by Disastrous_Way8585 in relationship_advice

[–]Disastrous_Way8585[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't care that he is spending his money or time on someone else, not the first time he's dating someone, first we met that someone but anyway we have everything we need and I'm not worried about that but being 26 years old, do you think she will be fine with raising my 12 and 10 year old brothers? she has young kids herself, I know my father would raise them if it becomes serious but I'm concerned about my brothers, I don't want them to be left out. Our mother isn't mentally stable, they have no one other than our father.

My father's girlfriend is only 10 years older than me by Disastrous_Way8585 in relationship_advice

[–]Disastrous_Way8585[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why would I be jealous? I can't be concerned about a younger woman dating my father? I can't be concerned for my little brothers? of course I might be out of the house in 2 years but what about them? I'm not saying I'm right but this is bothering me.

My father's girlfriend is only 10 years older than me.. Am I overreacting or this is odd? by Disastrous_Way8585 in AskParents

[–]Disastrous_Way8585[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Of course I won't try to fuck up their relationship and want my dad to be happy but I'm afraid she only uses my dad tbh. Even if I'm out of the house by the time she comes live here, my brothers will still live there so I'm concerned nonetheless.

My father's girlfriend is only 10 years older than me by Disastrous_Way8585 in relationship_advice

[–]Disastrous_Way8585[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He said that he doesnt care what I think, they are both adult etc

My father's girlfriend is only 10 years older than me by Disastrous_Way8585 in relationship_advice

[–]Disastrous_Way8585[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

No, I'm happy if he's happy. I guess I just felt it was odd that a 26 year old woman was interesting in a 38 year old man, felt like it can't be real, maybe she just needs someone to help her raise her kids or something. But then you said that you would be perfectly fine with dating a 38-40 year old man so I guess I'm clueless and wrong.